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Rime
05-05-2010, 04:37 PM
This was originally a response to the original same sex marriage debate, but since it hinges specifically on the relationship between same sex marriage and law, and since I've completely lost faith in the other thread, I think it's deserving of a new one.

Take note that as I use the word “practical” in this post I actually mean “being able to appease most people of things beyond their basic human needs (i.e. religious and cultural needs).”

Fair means that everyone receives the same package. No one is exempt from the laws, therefore it is fair.

That's very idealistic, so it's very wrong on larger scales. But it does bring up a very interesting topic. I think that a more accurate assumption than Peter’s would be the idea that laws are mostly practical with respect to the ones carrying it out, because everyone lives with individual ideals. As laws are written only to be later reinterpreted, or revised, the current interpreter may view the law may read it in a different way than his predecessor; one interpreter may have a different interpretation than another interpreter who is living in the same time. In each case, the the differing viewpoints is the result of their individual ideals. When constitutional law, Supreme Court verdict, or passage from the bible is under under debate, there will commonly be differing points of view due to the differing ideals of those who voice their interpretations of it.

Of course constitutional laws and their revisions are agreed to be universal on a national scale, but it gets harder and harder for a single document to please everyone for nation that are larger and larger. Ever consider as to why we have state laws along with constitutional ones? Well, along with national laws, there are state laws that further define rights and regulations. These laws are devised/revised by a certain few and new laws or revisions are passed or denied by the majority of people within the state. A state-defined policy that is currently under debate is the union between two people, marriage, and currently many state laws have been released to prevent the marriage of same sex couples. One case in particular, the passing of proposition 8 of the 2008 ballot, caused the state of California to stop recognizing unions between same sex-couples as marriages, and has limited such couples to an arguably lesser title under "domestic partnership." This proposition was approved with a mere 52% of the voters in favor of it.

Marriage, however, is arguably a constitutional right and the equal status stature guarantees equal status to all citizens. But the slight majority of California has chosen to limit marriage to heterosexual couples. Given that it is the majority rule within the state has come decisions as to the passing/revising of most state laws, I’m going to propose a few questions.


Regardless of whether it is “right” or “wrong in your opinion, would it be practical to impose the recognition of gay couple as “married” in states where most people disagree to it?
Conversely, would it be fair to deny the minority of the right to their equal status?
Does timing matter in the execution of laws?
Do you agree with the way the system works?


You don’t have to answer these questions precisely, but I’m very curious as to what you guys actually think when you…actually think. Feel free to deviate from the prompt if you feel that it is necessary, but make sure your post pertains to the recognition of same-sex marriage as a law.

Fumy
05-05-2010, 04:43 PM
Well Marriage was made for Man and Woman not for Man Man or Woman Woman but I really don't care. If they want to marry just let them marry if they love each other their "same-sex" relationship is better than most "normal" relationships.

And since I didn't grow up in the US or lived there for a longer time I really can't say much about the Law but in many other countries same-sex marriage is allowed

MagitekKefka
05-05-2010, 05:08 PM
One of the main problem is that marriage still has religious connotations to many people

Rime
05-05-2010, 05:14 PM
One of the main problem is that marriage still has religious connotations to many people

I've already addressed that in the prompt, somewhat. It's the majority who don't agree with same-sex marriage (which include people who follow religious connotations) that are preventing the gay's from being married.

EndlessDreams
05-05-2010, 06:35 PM
Hard to say if it is "right" or "wrong" to impose something that a majority of the people don't believe in for the benefit of the minority.
However, not a lot of politicians will do this since it will cost them their job/re-elections.

Justified
05-05-2010, 07:40 PM
Questions for the questions.

What is the difference between a marriage and a civil partnership?
What is the difference between a civil marriage and a religious marriage?
What benefits pertains to only one of the three? What benefits are shared?
Why do benefits only apply to one/some of the three and not all?

To me, who knows nothing about the above, all that runs through my mind is "Why to gays care if they can get married or not? So they can't have the 'title' of a married couple? SUCK IT UP and move on!" Obviously I can't make a proper decision without being informed.

Another question, do you think it would be acceptable if homosexual couples receiver all the benefits of a traditional marriage, but still not the title of a married couple?

Rime
05-05-2010, 08:06 PM
Domestic partnership - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Domestic_partnership)
Civil union - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Civil_unions)
Forgive me for posting links. It's not that I'm lazy, but rather unable to sum it up for you completely. Despite people calling them similar, there are many limitations to these non-marriage statuses and the limitations vary from state to state. I can only post the ones that stood out to me and are somewhat universal in the US.

These apply for both civil unions and domestic partnerships:
Unable to file joint taxes (constitutionally, only married couples may file join taxes).
Lack of certain tax benefits.
Status is only valid in the state where the coupled was united. This means that couples who are unionized/partnered in one state will not be considered as such in another state.
Complications in divorce procedures. Some states require a certain period of residence, meaning couples who come to a certain state to get married cannot get divorced unless they have lived there for X amount of years.

As they lack the full benefits of marriage, the statuses that domestic partnerships and civil unions grant are inferior.

Phunkie
05-06-2010, 12:29 AM
To me, who knows nothing about the above, all that runs through my mind is "Why to gays care if they can get married or not? So they can't have the 'title' of a married couple? SUCK IT UP and move on!" Obviously I can't make a proper decision without being informed.

It's about having the freedom to do so. It isn't about marriage per se, it's about the civil rights involved in the issue.

And heck, some people still fall in love these days. Those people want to get married. They want to enjoy all the benefits that come along with marriage-- the same ones heterosexual married couples enjoy.

That's why they can't just "suck it up and move on."

A civil union, a domestic partnership... they're inferior to marriage in the sense that they're not marriage. Even if it's identical to marriage. But if it is, then why not call it so? Why distinguish both of them so clearly? One for gays and one for heterosexuals?

It's not fair.

Rime
05-06-2010, 01:10 AM
It's about having the freedom to do so. It isn't about marriage per se, it's about the civil rights involved in the issue.

And heck, some people still fall in love these days. Those people want to get married. They want to enjoy all the benefits that come along with marriage-- the same ones heterosexual married couples enjoy.

That's why they can't just "suck it up and move on."

A civil union, a domestic partnership... they're inferior to marriage in the sense that they're not marriage. Even if it's identical to marriage. But if it is, then why not call it so? Why distinguish both of them so clearly? One for gays and one for heterosexuals?

It's not fair.

Personally, I think that it's unfair in the sense both civil unions and domestic partnerships are not only differentiated from the sacred union known as marriage in terminology, but also inferior in terms of benefits since the constitution doesn't even define civil unions or domestic partnerships. It's basically telling gays that they can't get married, and however close they can come to it isn't even recognized on a national level.

However, I think gays should stay their course. Around 48% of the voters in California disapproved of the bill, and statistically, only around ten percent of all citizens are gay. Several decades ago, the number that would have been against the bill would probably been much lower than 48%. This pretty much shows that there is an increasing number of heterosexual individuals who are in support of gay marriage.