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    You dont know me Bankai231 the ogre slayer Bankai231's Avatar
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    Need Help With Life/Girl

    Some I come to the Internetz.

    Theres this girl I REALLY like. We went out once when I didnt realize how much I liked her. Than after we broke up I realized she was like perfect for me (Dont know what you have till its gone.)
    After this my best friend decides to be a ****** and go out with her. I forgive him though Im a REAL nice person when it comes to this kinda stuff. While they were going out this girl and I got REAL close. She told me all about her life. Everything. Were like Best Friends right now. She always used to call me her best friend and how she didnt know what she would do without me. Like we are real tight. My Best Friend and her broke up last week. Now shes telling me how much she loves me and stuff. I really want to ask her out but I dont want to ruin our friendship. But I like really like this girl Alot. I just want to know if shes leading me on as her Best Friend or if shes trying to go out with me again. Im so torn right now you wouldnt believe whats going through my mind. Please help. I know I look pathetic coming to the internet but I really have no one else to ask and talk to this about
    Hell is empty, the devils are all here.

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    Did your best friend like her a lot?

    Ehhh, I dunno. I wouldn't go out with her if she was romantically close to your best friend. You'd betray him, even though he went out with her while you liked her. But you forgave him. I wouldn't do that to him.

    It's always iffy these kinds of situations.

    But it ultimately comes down to you.


    Can I ask, why do you like her so much? What about her gets you?

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    You could ask her if she likes you as a friend or more than that :x

    And if you both have feelings for each other, then you guys should go out

    I'm not good with advice


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    If you stayed close after one breakup you can stay close again.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Phunkie View Post
    Did your best friend like her a lot?

    Ehhh, I dunno. I wouldn't go out with her if she was romantically close to your best friend. You'd betray him, even though he went out with her while you liked her. But you forgave him. I wouldn't do that to him.

    It's always iffy these kinds of situations.

    But it ultimately comes down to you.


    Can I ask, why do you like her so much? What about her gets you?
    Everything. Absolutley Everything. Like we think so much alike. It always makes both of us smile.

    Update: We were just having a conversation about how were such good friends and how were both gonna move as soon as we graduate. We say we love each other but...idk.

    @Minisoda: I think thats what Im gonna do

    And Phunkie how did I know you would reply to me ;P
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    Bros b4 hoes man.

    If she doesn't like him anymore, the relationship will eventually end. So there is no need to make this forceful. The end result would be the same, just delayed, with less people pissed off.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bankai231 View Post
    Everything. Absolutley Everything. Like we think so much alike. It always makes both of us smile.

    Update: We were just having a conversation about how were such good friends and how were both gonna move as soon as we graduate. We say we love each other but...idk.

    @Minisoda: I think thats what Im gonna do

    And Phunkie how did I know you would reply to me ;P
    Haha, you're psychic, Bankai.

    And it seems like you've decided already and need some reassurance.

    Be kind enough to tell your friend (the one who dated her). You don't wanna have any conflict there.

    Good luck and tell us how it goes!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Phunkie View Post
    Haha, you're psychic, Bankai.

    And it seems like you've decided already and need some reassurance.

    Be kind enough to tell your friend (the one who dated her). You don't wanna have any conflict there.

    Good luck and tell us how it goes!
    Yeah well now Im definetly not sure. Were talking right now and were saying how much we love being around each other. I was gonna do it right here and now but...Im not really sure.
    Hell is empty, the devils are all here.

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    go for it! YOU WILL REGRET IT IF YOU DIDNT!

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    Quote Originally Posted by bradstrt View Post
    go for it! YOU WILL REGRET IT IF YOU DIDNT!
    YEAH DO IT!

    This is 2010!

    No "what ifs"!! You'll wonder what could have been if you don't do it.

    Don't wonder, take action. Ask her out.

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