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Jess wrote on 2010-10-05 05:11
Quote from RicochetOrange;175972:
However, usually it also means that the flirter has no intention to marry, either.
Lol wut?
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Ailyene wrote on 2010-10-05 09:56
^ Not sure what flirting has to do with marrying, but I think usually flirting is going out of your way to make someone blush.
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Sleeperdial wrote on 2010-10-05 10:04
I think it could easily be confused with hitting on but basically its any sort of teasing or compliments that make them blush or feel good about themselves, it could also be used to let someone know you love them.
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Virtue wrote on 2010-10-05 14:40
Giving compliments is not flirting, guys.
Feel free to be nice, serious and courteous to a girl. But, you have to be sure to mix that with teasing and a playful combo. Having this mix makes you a real man. Without it, you become her “friend†and a “really nice guyâ€. Ewww! (We don't want that, right?)
By showing to her that you are fun and don't think of her (or girls in general) as a different species or some godly person, you become the big winner. There is a concept here of “push/pull†that is very important in flirting. You tease a girl, you subtly push her away. Then reel her back in , you pull her towards you. (Although, I do it more direct.) This creates the important thing: tension.
A very basic example of what I mean would be like, for example, you tell a girl "Give me your hands." then she gives them to you and you're like "Awh, they're really warm and soft (the pull)... but sweaty eww! (the push)" and you take your hands off hers.
This is a special type of tension known as – Sexual Tension. To flirt like a man means to be the master of tension. When to dial it up and when to slow it down. It takes experience to master it.
Women just love that they can’t figure out how much you really want to do thing to them. That's why kissing/making out followed by sudden teasing/pushing is so very attractive to them.
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Zid wrote on 2010-10-05 16:34
Um, yeah, it's tension. That's why flirting can either lead to nothing or something. But it's also about testing the waters. That's why flirting can stop, because it can also be about testing that someone else.
Although, if you can successfully and happily flirt with your partner even though both you are officially together/married, I'd call that pro.
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Virtue wrote on 2010-10-05 16:57
Quote from Zid;176223:
Although, if you can successfully and happily flirt with your partner even though both you are officially together/married, I'd call that pro.
You
never stop flirting/gaming. If you stop doing that once you get married and become a chump I would guarantee that you'd get a divorce within a few years.
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Zikau wrote on 2010-10-05 20:42
Generally, I think if flirting as showing some sort of sexual interest towards another, without forcing them to do the same for you; anything trying to get a positive response.