Akiha wrote on 2010-12-18 18:44
I'm not impressed by your ability to text wall a whole list generated as an excuse to your behaviour. I can pry your "arguments" apart one by one if that's to your liking.
I do have the whole conversation logged, including the images for references, I think that would more than enough negate any reason you could come up with to justify yourself.
Let's have a quick recap of what happened:
1. oXo member scams
2. An inquiry is made on your private boards, with the supposed "insults" you claim edited out clearly.
3. oXo admin (you), attack me about not taking to to "private", when it's on your boards, directed at your admin team.
4. You lash out, insult #1
5. Replied with more evidence
6. Denial, and more insults
7. My reply, stating I'm done with you
8. You ban me apparently, but hey, I can't be bothered to visit your boards again to find out
For anyone interested enough to see just how qualified this person is, feel free to drop me a PM. And for the record, stating facts =/= insulting anyone.
Apparently when you have no valid facts to support your argument, you resort to calling an issue "drama" and using profanities in place of evidence. Very convincing.
I'm not really concerned about whether I'm kicked from Mabination for posting this or not, since I don't frequent these boards enough anyway, but seeing your link on the Nexon boards, I thought I'd do the community a favor by warning them ahead of the time.
TA wrote on 2010-12-18 19:17
It's obvious you're simply out for blood. I'd like to ask, does your guild member have an account here so they can defend themselves? I think it would be more useful for both members actually involved in the dispute to share their sides of the story without our biased hearsay.
Your interpretation of the events is clearly biased, but you're welcome to whatever interpretation you'd like.
Look, what I think happened is that my member contacted your member privately to make a trade for a Rose Drop Frill Skirt, a price was agreed upon. My guild member already had one of this, of which this I can attest to, as can many of my guild members. She wanted another one for dyeing purposes, without losing her current color - this would be what you saw her wearing, as she never accepted the COD (as it is to my understanding). Had she, then there would be no problem in the first place as the gold would have been paid and problem solved.
My guild member, as I have been told, was not aware the item was even sent until several minutes after the fact and when they realized it, they messaged your member in question and asked about the price. It seemed to her as if your member was trying to exort and/or scam her in some way by raising the price above what was agreed to, and it is by her statement that she doesn't like anyone who does that sort of thing and refused to trade with them on that account. And so, the COD item was returned.
It is as per her statement that this was all done before any supposed threatening to report (which you claim) happened, in fact she has told me that she never received any messages of the sort. The issue was resolved before your message was even posted on our forums and in fact, there was no issue of scamming or foul play as there was a minor conflict of interests between a trade among our two members, the trade was canceled, the item was returned - or so to say, was never accepted. The trade was canceled, your member had their skirt back and mine did not pay the fee which they felt was unreasonably raised.
Now, any decent leader would just chalk this up to "yeah, these kinds of things happen... there doesn't need to be a big deal made out of it." And yes, sure, I do believe what you're doing is just stirring up drama and looking for blood because you feel upset and wronged.
I think it would be more useful if both of our members in question would make statements for themselves, with their own accounts, explaining the situation from their perspective. I don't think we should be able to speak for them, especially when we clearly believe someone is wrong here.
Personally, I think this is all one big misunderstanding and is being taken way out of context and given way more attention than it ever deserved.
If your member has an account here and can defend themselves, I wouldn't mind a thread for them to discuss this. But, I think the two of them should really conduct this privately amongst themselves and neither of us have any right to get involved in the first place. It's between them, not us, nor our guilds. Them.
TA wrote on 2010-12-22 01:46
Hm... I don't like double posting, but there was an update!
Update: since we will be out of the office for the holidays, the team has decided to postpone the application process until the New Year.
In the meantime, take the opportunity to help your fellow forumers over the holidays. There will probably be some new players entering over the break and they will need help from you "vets." ;) Do you best to be compassionate and helpful this holiday season.
Please stay tuned for the application questions and submission procedure.
Best,
Kalika
Kueh wrote on 2010-12-22 02:08
since we will be out of the office for the holidays,
AKA
You had better pray to your heathen gods that the servers don't crash over the holidays. which they will.