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Yogurticecream wrote on 2011-01-23 04:59
I will still put the blame on the parents and the family first. They have the basic responsibility for the upbringing of the child.
If no one else would care, and parents won't care, nobody else would. Family is the basic unit block of society. You have individuals but most of them without family support usually turn out messed up.
Kids are very impressionable at a young age. You have to influence them and teach them the right things.
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Time wrote on 2011-01-23 05:06
Quote from Tokiko;301321:
You're not eve sure if the parents taught the kids about sex yet you're blaming the parents.
Do you think them saying "Hey I know you don't know what sex is yet but do not try it".
It also seems like you're implying that everyone parent that tells their kids to not do drugs and well in school do exactly what their parents say.
You don't need to tell kids what to do for them to know it's bad. Take bullies for example they know hurting kids is wrong but yet they do it anyways.
I get what you're trying to say but not everything is just as simple as that.
I would be more understanding if the kids were older, but if they are in 2nd grade and doing this, then I blame the parents.
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Byte wrote on 2011-01-23 05:17
What is oral sex? jk
But yea... that's just stupid as hell. I'd blame parents... even other kids parents... can't trust peers due to that mysterious pressure they throw.
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Cynic wrote on 2011-01-23 05:21
IMO, it isn't always the parents fault.
I first engaged in oral sex when I was maybe.. 6-7? But that was just us two being curious after finding a porn video OnDemand. Aside from my Father, my Mom was a perfect parent.
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Yogurticecream wrote on 2011-01-23 05:23
Quote from Cynic;301367:
IMO, it isn't always the parents fault.
I first engaged in oral sex when I was maybe.. 6-7? But that was just us two being curious after finding a porn video OnDemand. Aside from my Father, my Mom was a perfect parent.
Curiosity kills the cat =/
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Tatsu wrote on 2011-01-23 05:25
...Why the hell are we blaming the parents again?
Me: Started watching porn in 2nd grade, never had the parental talk about anything, and grew up in a generally bad environment. And ignoring my online persona. I grew up just fine.
For the porn thing, learned about it from the internet.
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BobYoMeowMeow wrote on 2011-01-23 05:56
Quote from Yogurticecream;301369:
Curiosity kills the cat =/
the cat didnt know that
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Rahannnn wrote on 2011-01-23 06:03
What? Kids younger then me having sex, ORAL SEX? I've heard of 2nd graders masturbating but ORAL SEX? They said that they ran around naked in the school though, I wish I was there to jack slap everyone. I knew what the fak wat Sex was in 2nd grade from a friend telling me but I mean really doing it? The **** has this world turned into. I'm ten and I know better. Those children are far more mature then the kids at my school. Though the ones at my school are kinda mature already o_o.
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Tokiko wrote on 2011-01-23 19:00
Since when does having oral sex make you mature?
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woohoohelloppl wrote on 2011-01-23 19:19
* Notices that this school is in East Oakland *
For those of you that didn't know...Oakland is a pretty bad/ dangerous place to live in(crimes mostly occur in East and West Oakland though.)
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But anyway, this is just..WTF.
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Phunkie wrote on 2011-01-23 19:59
Okay, let me rephrase this.
Your 2nd grade kid is having oral sex in school.
Do you really think we shouldn't blame the parents? Not even a little bit?
Obviously some fault belongs to them. Something is happening or not happening at home.
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Chillax wrote on 2011-01-23 20:08
I love how we're trying to find someone to blame.
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Joker wrote on 2011-01-24 02:05
I'm still waiting for someone to blame years and years of genetic problems from the food we eat...
o wait
I just did......
Allot of the food we eat now is ****ed up and less nutritious
and to top it off
Any of you remember that bill trying to be passed or was initially passed? for Iradiating food.. and stuff like that..
When that happens... Were fked... Make your own gardens.. .. Hopefully you can find some organic seeds b4 they get Banned :/ by the FDA
And back when i was a kid in Grade 3.. there was sexual talk going around .. about this and that.. and some prank or something.. saying some guy in grade 3 class was gonna try to do it with some girl.. anyways ... i don't think anything ever came of it.
But im 20 now ... idk whats going on now.. but oral sex in grade 2 ~sigh~ ... anyways .. it can't be as bad as the case of the its either 5 or 7 yr old mother... yeah i know its fuked up but apparently its true.. look it up if you don't believe me..
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Pocoyo wrote on 2011-01-24 02:39
Oh god..
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Adelynn wrote on 2011-01-24 17:36
I did a bit of a double-take when I read the title. There had to be something somewhere that made these kids think that it was okay to do that. Maybe the parents, maybe not. I don't think it's the teacher, though.