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Cynic wrote on 2011-01-28 01:42
How long do you think it takes to fall out of love? Under any circumstances, really.
Apparently it happens fairly quickly with some people, so I wonder how it is with others.
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Cannibal wrote on 2011-01-28 01:44
Depends on the person, just like everyone else.
How far into love someone is with another person, and a lot of other factors play into this.
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Shirayuki wrote on 2011-01-28 01:44
As long as it takes to fall into love again >:D
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Cynic wrote on 2011-01-28 01:47
Quote from Shirayuki;307354:
As long as it takes to fall into love again >:D
LOL.
For me, that would be years. So I hope not.
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Kueh wrote on 2011-01-28 01:51
I suppose it depends on whether they were ever really in love in the first place.
My idea of love...it would take longer than forever.
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Sleeperdial wrote on 2011-01-28 02:03
Well I literally gave my soul to someone then they stabbed me in the back and it still took 2 weeks to fall out of love ._.
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Valkyrie wrote on 2011-01-28 02:08
When you wake up, look to the side to see your lover/wife, and then ask yourself what you have been doing with your life
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Tatsu wrote on 2011-01-28 02:09
I once heard that once you stop and think if you really loved that person, you've stopped loving them. So...
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Taycat wrote on 2011-01-28 02:18
I think I've fallen out of love with this one guy...
but I'm too scared...
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Kueh wrote on 2011-01-28 02:23
Quote from Tatsu;307423:
I once heard that once you stop and think if you really loved that person, you've stopped loving them. So...
Does that mean that once you evaluate whether or not your truly love someone, then the love is instantly rendered void?
That doesn't make sense. The way you feel about them hasn't changed, and the past feelings you've had toward them also haven't changed.
That's like saying, "You can't ask, 'do I love you?' because you're just supposed to love me without knowing why."
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Shirayuki wrote on 2011-01-28 02:23
Personally, I haven't fallen out of love yet since I've only fallen in love once. I'd probably guess it'd take a few years for me to fall out of love since it isn't just infatuation, but something deeper >: If you want to fall out of love, just try your best to keep your mind off of it, or just find new love *u*
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Mama wrote on 2011-01-28 03:03
Quote from Whyrainfalls;307453:
Does that mean that once you evaluate whether or not your truly love someone, then the love is instantly rendered void?
That doesn't make sense. The way you feel about them hasn't changed, and the past feelings you've had toward them also haven't changed.
That's like saying, "You can't ask, 'do I love you?' because you're just supposed to love me without knowing why."
some women get extremely irrational if you make it aware that youre contemplating whether you love them or not.
I think people believe that you need to love each other so much so that it doesn't even cross your mind, I guess.
I think it is insecure as well.
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Kueh wrote on 2011-01-28 03:13
Quote from Mama;307568:
I think it is insecure as well.
An insecure person can still love, no?
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Devoth wrote on 2011-01-28 03:20
Quote from Whyrainfalls;307453:
Does that mean that once you evaluate whether or not your truly love someone, then the love is instantly rendered void?
That doesn't make sense. The way you feel about them hasn't changed, and the past feelings you've had toward them also haven't changed.
That's like saying, "You can't ask, 'do I love you?' because you're just supposed to love me without knowing why."
I'm glad someone else finds those types of 'sayings' idiotic and irrational.
The best way I can answer this is to say that it varies from person to person because everyone views love differently. Even those who have extremely similar views will still have emotional reactions that differ. Not to mention, there's no set definition on love, save for the 'official' definition that you can look up in a dictionary. Some people will cling to a person out of fear, not wanting to spend their life alone. In a sense, they'll stay in love because they'll constantly convince themselves that they're still in love. For most, you get the general wanting to spend a life together, have a family, etc.
With the clingy people, hell, they might stay 'in love' forever. To those who find partners that they end up seeing a future with, they might stay 'in love' forever. There are others who are fueled by lust, and they become so infatuated that they feel like they're 'in love', or they end up forming a strong, temporary attachment that they get bored of after a while.
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Taycat wrote on 2011-01-28 03:32
Can I stab love in the back yet?