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Osayidan wrote on 2010-05-11 18:43
Quote from Chillax;33458:
Also, makeup is a scary thing.
Forgot to mention makeup D:
I rather see someone go without makeup and look how they're supposed to look, instead of hiding behind cosmetics.
Makeup is very scary indeed.
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Iyasenu wrote on 2010-05-11 18:46
Quote from Chiri;33469:
Personally, I wouldn't date someone who was so hung up on looks that they wouldn't consider dating someone for that reason. Shallow about one thing, very likely shallow about another.
I like this :O
Yes, I couldn't date a shallow person. xD
I don't like being around them. xD
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Virtue wrote on 2010-05-11 18:55
Quote from Chillax;33458:
By then, it may be too late for you.
Also, makeup is a scary thing.
There are enough fish in the sea who already have a normal bodyweight without me having to wait for it.
Quote from Chiri;33469:
Personally, I wouldn't date someone who was so hung up on looks that they wouldn't consider dating someone for that reason. Shallow about one thing, very likely shallow about another.
Most people assess whether or not they would nail a girl on meeting them, most women do this for men as well. Usually the first conversation you have with a person sets the tone for what follows.
I also stop talking to girls I want to sleep if they try to pursue anything other than a romantic encounter with me. Sorry princess. I already have enough friends and I really don't have the time to hang out with some girl and listen to her rattle off, recite her calorie count, share her feelings, etc, if she doesn't want more with me.
Why would I be considered shallow? Because I don't want to date people I'm not attracted to?
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Chiri wrote on 2010-05-11 19:00
Sorry, if you're out to meet people just for sex based on looks, and you'll only listen to attractive people if you think you can get them in the sack, I think you're very shallow.
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Chockeh wrote on 2010-05-11 19:04
Don't have a definitive standard. But bad teeth and body odor definitely turn me off.
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Virtue wrote on 2010-05-11 19:06
Quote from Chiri;33501:
Sorry, if you're out to meet people just for sex based on looks, and you'll only listen to attractive people if you think you can get them in the sack, I think you're very shallow.
Of course, what's there to gain for me talking to an ugly girl or an attractive girl that only wants to be friends with me? I'm not interested in her as a friend (plenty of friends already who I can exchange experiences and feelings with) and I'm not interested in the ugly girl as a potential mate either because I'm not a loser who has to date fatties/uglies. There really is no point. It's only a gigantic waste of my time.
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Iyasenu wrote on 2010-05-11 19:09
Quote from Sin;33518:
Of course, what's there to gain for me talking to an ugly girl or an attractive girl that only wants to be friends with me? I'm not interested in her as a friend (plenty of friends already who I can exchange experiences and feelings with) and I'm not interested in the ugly girl as a potential mate either because I'm not a loser who has to date fatties/uglies. There really is no point. It's only a gigantic waste of my time.
Just blah... really...
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Chiri wrote on 2010-05-11 19:10
This thread is a gigantic waste of my time. I hope you are trolling, but...
Thank you for exemplifying why I shouldn't bother dating people who are focused on looks alone.
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Iyasenu wrote on 2010-05-11 19:13
Quote from Chiri;33531:
This thread is a gigantic waste of my time. I hope you are trolling, but...
Thank you for exemplifying why I shouldn't bother dating people who are focused on looks alone.
yeah i'm leaving now xD
i'm so bad with trolls :\
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Cucurbita wrote on 2010-05-11 19:14
Sunglasses*
>_>
<_<
Tits or gtfo
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Virtue wrote on 2010-05-11 19:15
Quote from Iyasenu;33529:
I'm being blinded by this HUGE ASS in front of me.
Like really.
Such a high-horse you're seated on.
I am hardly an ugly person. I'd be offended if an ugly/fatty would think they are in the same league as me.
Chiri, you still haven't provided any reason why I should not to judge on looks other than "hurr u so shallow derp" when I'm interested in a romantic relationship and not a friendship. Newsflash: Everyone is shallow. But they're not all as open about it.
Quote from Soushin AKA truth:
The answer is really depending on the following context: how desperate are you?
Say you haven't dated anyone in 2 years, if you're perfectly fine being single, then what's the point of lowering your standards?
But if you're sick of being lonely, then perhaps your standards may be too high.
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Chiri wrote on 2010-05-11 19:19
Here's your reason:
Attractive people will not want to date you. You might get one night stands, but if your personality is based on you being on some pedestal leagues above others, very few people will have the patience to deal with you in the long term.
That said, I am also leaving this thread :3
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Virtue wrote on 2010-05-11 19:26
Quote from Chiri;33540:
Here's your reason:
Attractive people will not want to date you. You might get one night stands, but if your personality is based on you being on some pedestal leagues above others, very few people will have the patience to deal with you in the long term.
That said, I am also leaving this thread :3
And that's why I have to be willing to date a fat cow? GREAT logic.
Look, all women are basically the same person with very minor variations.
The only real qualities that matter are playfulness and attractiveness. Other than that we have "Intelligence" (irrelevant unless they are seriously pursuing a career), "Personality" (irrelevant, as playfulness is the expression of that as it relates to you), and Family Background (relevant, if you're considering them for more than a night.)
But yes, there's no real reason for me to entertain a woman as a friend if I want to sleep with her. Women generally make lousy friends (see all the drama they have with each other?) and provide fairly useless opinions on dating, relationships, etc.
I'll pass. The only girls I keep as friends are girls that are very playful and have a lot of attractive girl friends that they will introduce me to.
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Cucurbita wrote on 2010-05-11 19:29
Quote from Sin;33544:
Look, all women are basically the same person with very minor variations.
I actually rofl'd.
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Aravan wrote on 2010-05-11 19:37
Would I settle, just so i can be in a relationship? No. But you'll find what you find attractive isn't so defined as "not ugly or fat."
My baby's daddy was totally hot. The man I nearly married was average joe.
My baby's daddy was a musician. The man I nearly married was a gamer geek.
My baby's daddy i would have shrugged off in my memory if it wasnt for the fact of my baby.
My ex-fiance (who had to move to California for his Video Game Design degree, and I refused to move with him), i think of nearly daily, all these years later.
Allen had been a friend for two years before we realized what our friends were teasing us about was true. It was a slow burn. He wasn't my type, physically. But our personalities meshed.
Now, I saw pics his mom posted on her Facebook of the family. Christmas of one year, he looked heavier. I "hmm'ed" over it and sighed. His eyes looked so merry in a softened face. In the following year's pics, he had put on muscle and shaved the beard. What a boyish face, still not my type, but i missed him, oh so much. That bond that I lost, because I was too scared to follow him so far away. No other man can match up to the standard HE set, being such a match for me.
*laughs at Sin* I'm sorry, but XD You are totally stuck up. Or hung up. You come across as thinking girls are only a piece of ass. "...listen to her rattle off, recite her calorie count, share her feelings, etc," Serious, you really cannot see a woman as something beyond those shallow things? That reminds me of this hot guy at work. I gave him the twice over, thought "yeah, i'd do him." Then he said something off-colored to another guy. I realized he was totally ugly. He was hot, until he opened his mouth. A girl will friend-track you until she gets a feel for you (unless she's a slut and wants to jump your bones.) If you stay on the friend track, confess. If she rejects you at that point and you bail, then she knows for certain what her gut was saying... You're a slut looking for a slut.
Yeah, there is something to attraction, but if you have over-blown standards in women then you need to check yourself.