I'll just keep this simple guys.
If you want to look good, you look into a mirror and correct yourself. Sometimes, you can even ask people if you look good or not for their opinions.
On the internet, if you want a good reputation or a good record, you check on how other people would bother to reply to your posts. While the mirror can only reflect the physical, your mental image gets reflected depending on other forum users.
You get what you give. That's all I'll say to this particular thread.