sigh....

• Phunkie wrote on 2011-08-02 15:09
  Must suck to care about someone so much and not have them return the same sentiment, no?
  
  Hope things get better.
• Hiccup wrote on 2011-08-05 08:29

  Quote from Phigga;534999:

  Must suck to care about someone so much and not have them return the same sentiment, no?
  
  Hope things get better.

  
  Must suck getting betrayed by someone you care so much about.
  
  Anyway...
  
  
  Finally got a chance to talk to em and he said I'm too emotionally invested and that him just hanging out with his "potential life long partner" is just the way its gonna be.
  
  
  Whatevs. I done.
• Perilous wrote on 2011-08-05 23:08
  It's a fact of life, too, man. Sometimes people disappear when they find love. Just send a message or two every once in awhile to make sure your buddy is okay. If that relationship turns over or something, you will be the first your friend looks to for comfort. I bet he'd do the same in your position.
• Strawberry wrote on 2011-08-05 23:15
  He has to learn his lesson through loss then. Even if he seems he doesn't care, he'll learn through methods himself then, instead of people telling him it. Just make sure he knows your existence is there at the very least, and that what he wants isn't what everyone wants.
  Sure that it may seen like imposing on his happiness and all, but if he's that ignorant of someone just for someone else, then he doesn't really sound like someone that would stick as a friend for too long.
  
  Caring about someone is being too emotionally invested? Since when did people start saying those type of things?
  If his girl notices this, get her to bluntly tell him that, because if he won't listen to you and he only wants to listen and pay attention to her, then this is practically on of the better methods, as long as she doesn't hate you or anything.
• Conor wrote on 2011-08-06 00:41

  Quote from Hiccup;539240:

  
  Whatevs. I done.

  
  
  g00d. leave it that way.
  it's up for him2learn.
• Hiccup wrote on 2011-08-06 01:05

  Quote from Strawberry;539873:

  He has to learn his lesson through loss then. Even if he seems he doesn't care, he'll learn through methods himself then, instead of people telling him it. Just make sure he knows your existence is there at the very least, and that what he wants isn't what everyone wants.
  Sure that it may seen like imposing on his happiness and all, but if he's that ignorant of someone just for someone else, then he doesn't really sound like someone that would stick as a friend for too long.
  
  Caring about someone is being too emotionally invested? Since when did people start saying those type of things?
  If his girl notices this, get her to bluntly tell him that, because if he won't listen to you and he only wants to listen and pay attention to her, then this is practically on of the better methods, as long as she doesn't hate you or anything.

  
  
  I have and I am friends with her. I talk to her now more then I do to him. But I doubt shes gonna relay the message, shes more naive and immature considering shes fresh outta high school.
• Loopster wrote on 2011-08-06 01:10
  Well if you host a party or something don't invite him, and if he asks you can just say "I would, but you were just gonna spend time with your girl instead of coming." or something. Hopefully it'll knock some sense into him.
• Hiccup wrote on 2011-08-06 01:12
  Nah, ignoring em at work is good enough for me. I know he doesn't like it much but since "I'm too emotionally attached" so I'm just gonna "un-attach" myself.
  
  Edit (browser crashed): I only ever say hi to em once and then go right back to work. I never ask if he wants to go on break now. I'll only have a small convo with em if I'm talking to someone else and he comes around, or if I wanna talk to someone he is around. I know today when I said bye to someone he looked up at me, expecting a bye too, but I just looked away and kept walking.
• Hiccup wrote on 2011-08-23 06:01
  sshhhh I know I'm necro'ing but....
  [SIZE="6"]UPDATE![/SIZE]
  His girlfriend is now in college and he is attempting to talk to everyone he threw in the trash, including me. He even told my one friend that he has nobody to talk to now that his girl is away. She told em she didn't wanna talk about it, and he said he wont talk about it and walked away. I don't feel sorry for em, he ****ing deserves this. Now I just have to deal with him trying to be "a friend"....
  
  sigh...
• Adelynn wrote on 2011-08-24 19:16
  I don't think 2 weeks counts as a necro, but anyway...
  
  I don't think you should give him the opportunity to throw you in the trash again. Now he gets to know how the rest of you feel, and if he even learns anything from it, then he can make new friends.