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emomutt wrote on 2010-06-04 05:57
Yet I still have some "false hope" in me. Do not know if I should continue living since I have nothing left to loose. Family hates me people tell me I am not allowed to reproduce, I do not even see a person when I look in the mirror anymore. All I see is pain, failure and regret. so I have decided to reach out to my mabinogi family for help.
[RIGHT]~Sincerely, Emomutt The Furry.[/RIGHT]
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Tokiko wrote on 2010-06-04 06:07
Don't commit suicide. .__. I don't like it when people talk like that.
This is in the spam so are you kidding? .___.
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Cucurbita wrote on 2010-06-04 06:12
I'm so sick of you people feeling so sorry for yourselves. Then you come on the internet and do this "I have nothing to live for" crap and we feed you a bunch of "I'M SO SORRY FOR YOU" to make you feel better.
Nothing to lose my ass. You're still living a life that about 80% of the planet's population would sacrifice their kidneys for. How do these people go on living?
You want help from this community? Heres help. Stop being a negative douche.
You don't get anywhere by being jealous of those who are born as geniuses, where everything works out for them perfectly. Failure and Regret are the building foundations of success, so the more you experience it, the more you will widen your base for progress. Instead of thinking "Why can't I do as well as person X?" you should be thinking "I should probably avoid action X next time".
The first step isn't to find a solution in materialistic things. Its to change your attitude. Positivity can influence your subconsciousness a lot more than you think. People naturally do better when they are encouraged. People also change, very slowly but surely, by holding their new personality tightly. By pretending to be more positive, you eventually BECOME more positive naturally without the need to force yourself. Stand firm, but don't be arrogant, as it leads to anger instead.
You know the phrase, "when life gives you lemons".
You know what you do? You don't whine about it. You make crush it. Then maybe mix it up with vodka and slam it. On to the next problem.
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Sorry if I was being aggressive, but I talk to people like you all the time, and their problems are probably far worse than whatever you have. But they either end up continuing to be whiny losers or they straighten up and get better. Whats your pick?
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emomutt wrote on 2010-06-04 06:22
i was actually looking for advice...
/punts (stupid azn)
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Mrlucky77 wrote on 2010-06-04 06:27
Umm....
Here's a list of stuff:
Get a good job, go to conventions, spend more time with friends, masquerade as normal person when talking to family, become normal person, become famous somehow, get into a prestigious university and graduate, make yourself feel better by going to self-image/self-confidence meeting, do whatever makes you joyful not happy (as in a great accomplishment).
I can't think of anymore cause I'm really tired. G'night.
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Shironi wrote on 2010-06-04 06:31
Play mabi. Duh.
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Cucurbita wrote on 2010-06-04 06:38
Quote from Mrlucky77;54356:
Get a good job, go to conventions, spend more time with friends, masquerade as normal person when talking to family, become normal person, become famous somehow, get into a prestigious university and graduate, make yourself feel better by going to self-image/self-confidence meeting
To be honest thinking of doing any of that actually makes me more depressed >_>
I find that I enjoy myself more when I'm NOT interacting with people directly. Hate that.
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Shanghai wrote on 2010-06-04 07:54
Don't suicide. It's the most selfish thing you can do. People will feel at the loss of your death greatly even if they don't like you. Including your family.
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Sarinii wrote on 2010-06-04 08:11
Like [s]Kitae[/s] Margatroid said, i hate people who whine and whine and whine about their life. Or complain about anything in particular. I get extremely annoyed in exam week (which was this week, i just finished!) not because of the exams, but because of the people around me going: 'I'M GONNA FAILLL. MY PARENTS ARE GOING TO EAT ME ALIVE. I'M SO STUPID. I DON'T DESERVE TO LIVE. OMG YOU STUDIED AND I HAVEN'T (when they have a whole stack of notes and i've only just started to study the period before the test). Think! You're living a heaps better life than other people in the world who, like Margatroid said, would sell their kidneys to get! Releasing all your mopey misery on other people (most of which you probably don't even know) isn't going to help, but bring them down too.
Go and try to be a more positive person, even if you have to fake it! Your own pretence will rub off yourself over time and you probably will be a more cheerful person. Spend time with friends, do something fun together. Go do something you love- listen to some good music, draw, paint, read, sleep, eat, talk, take a stroll, whatever it is you love. You'll eventually learn how valuable life is and how lucky you are to be living wherever you are right now.
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Phunkie wrote on 2010-06-04 08:20
Someone once told me, "If you're thinking about killing yourself, there must be something wrong with you."
In other words, don't ever think about suicide. If you haven't, you're doing good so far.
Pain, failure, regret. I feel ya there, buddy. I honestly do. But those three words do not define your life, nor do they define mine.
We make mistakes sometimes, but we have to move forward. We just have to. How will we ever experience better days if we keep crying and hating on our simple lives? I use the word simple because we're so young. I'm 21 and I have yet to live! So do you, I bet.
What you are upset with is a few parts of your life, not life in its entirety. Life is actually beautiful when you look at it. Even with it's downs.
Pain heals with time. Failures are a must; they change us for the better. And, regrets... ehh, I don't like to regret things. I like to think that every thing we do in life shapes us into the people we are today. The bad, the good... We have all made so many mistakes, but we wouldn't be here without them.
Sure, don't go ahead doing stupid things like jumping in front of a car. That's something you might regret forever. But the things you can't control, don't bother worrying about them.
Try to convince your family more. Are they hardcore religious or something? That might be difficult if they are. But they are your loved ones. They should love you no matter what. No buts. Never. What kind of family does that? I'm pretty sure that has a big impact on your life. My Dad isn't the one to speak so much on my sexuality, so I can relate. We never talk about it.
And nothing to lose? No, you have everything to lose. The possibility, the chance of a brighter future, your happiness. That is worth fighting for, living for.
Hold your head high, friend. Find some buddies to help you go through these hard times. People underestimate the power of a strong friendship sometimes. They are so key to surviving many of life's struggles.
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yugun313 wrote on 2010-06-04 10:26
i like depression..... its fun........heh heh heh..............
thinking about how ur the most loneliest person in world.... no friends.... family think ur a burden...... heh....... oh! and dont forget that suicidal imaginations!! how u'd die..... in the most pitious way as possible.....
meh, u'll get over it. oneday, trust me, u'll wake up, and feel:
"the world i live in is not so ugly as i thought."
come on man, its life. it has its up and downs. its human destiny to overcome them ;3.
"just keep living. evetually, good things will come x3."
(i like depression... its like an addictive drug that come at u when u least expected :tea:)
HAVE HOPE~! :ran_kero:
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bebepanales wrote on 2010-06-04 10:39
depression is fun but dangerous~!! dont get too deep in. itll be ok emo~ families dont really hate each other. there is always the love underneath everything.
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hengsheng120 wrote on 2010-06-04 11:44
Asking online for help is not really the best idea. You might consider the advice, but if you are given too many choices, it'll lead you astray and your mind back to square 0, with all the advice gathering dust in the back of your mind. You need someone in real life who takes your hand, lift you up, and guide you through whatever trouble you're having.
The first thing is to be identify what caused your depression. Think about why your family "hates" you. You probably don't want to tell us about your life here.
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Pocoyo wrote on 2010-06-04 12:12
Quote from Phunkie;54392:
Someone once told me, "If you're thinking about killing yourself, there must be something wrong with you."
In other words, don't ever think about suicide. If you haven't, you're doing good so far.
Pain, failure, regret. I feel ya there, buddy. I honestly do. But those three words do not define your life, nor do they define mine.
We make mistakes sometimes, but we have to move forward. We just have to. How will we ever experience better days if we keep crying and hating on our simple lives? I use the word simple because we're so young. I'm 21 and I have yet to live! So do you, I bet.
What you are upset with is a few parts of your life, not life in its entirety. Life is actually beautiful when you look at it. Even with it's downs.
Pain heals with time. Failures are a must; they change us for the better. And, regrets... ehh, I don't like to regret things. I like to think that every thing we do in life shapes us into the people we are today. The bad, the good... We have all made so many mistakes, but we wouldn't be here without them.
Sure, don't go ahead doing stupid things like jumping in front of a car. That's something you might regret forever. But the things you can't control, don't bother worrying about them.
Try to convince your family more. Are they hardcore religious or something? That might be difficult if they are. But they are your loved ones. They should love you no matter what. No buts. Never. What kind of family does that? I'm pretty sure that has a big impact on your life. My Dad isn't the one to speak so much on my sexuality, so I can relate. We never talk about it.
And nothing to lose? No, you have everything to lose. The possibility, the chance of a brighter future, your happiness. That is worth fighting for, living for.
Hold your head high, friend. Find some buddies to help you go through these hard times. People underestimate the power of a strong friendship sometimes. They are so key to surviving many of life's struggles.
Wise words.
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Arsik wrote on 2010-06-04 20:54
Maybe stop referring to yourself as an emo might help, since if you think you're an emo kid, you're just going to continue to fall into the emo stereotype, meaning that you're going to always think that your existence is meaningless and should come to an end. However, if you stop referring to yourself as an emo person, change your appearance (cut your hair, don't wear dark colors, remove any skull/death reference, etc.), and try hanging out with a different crowd if all of your friends are emo kids as well (not saying just abandon your old friends, just don't hang around them as much). If you get out of your environment of emoness, then things will start looking up for you.