I do see the good the girl is trying to do, but I agree with the bottom-most post when they said they had the disease, yet she pushes them anyways because someone else did it.
And the fact that she basically insulted them in words, I'm sorry for that Zeo :imdead:
If you do confront them after this, maybe they'll understand what you're trying to say
[SPOILER="Spoiler"]Yeah... Everytime I tried to explain her the reasons I can't do this or things, she would just sway it away and tried to force me to do it anyway.
On last Friday, we have to take pictures for our class of 2013, and they wanted me to sit down but it's really difficult for me to get up unless there's LOT of spaces to do so which there isn't, so the teacher understood that and allowed me to stand behind. However, the girl decided to attack me with "why" word and how I can't sit down due to my knee problem. Other girl (who is just an acquaintine to me) explained to my friend that I dislocated my knee cap last year, and my friend responded in a mockingly/sarcasm way kinda like "Oh~" with a smug expression on her face.[/SPOILER]
Rant from me, to you.
[SPOILER="Spoiler"]In my opinion, it seems like she's trying hard to want to give you the will to want to participate in things. Yeah, being shy isn't that good of a thing at times, but you gotta do what you just have to do to overcome it. It doesn't matter if you overcome it with someone else, or overcome it alone.
Pushing you quite a bit may end up being annoying, but at least she cares a lot about you by trying to engage you in activities. Even if you can't run, jump, or whatever so well, it doesn't mean that it's impossible to. If you keep believing something is too hard or impossible to do, you really begin to rub it into yourself and you truly end up believing that.
Honestly, there are more people out there than a circle of friends willing to give you the help you need if anything is too hard for you. Why drop out, though? She said it was easy, maybe you should've asked her to help you out on it? Because she seems to care a mighty lot about you. Just her saying it is easy doesn't really help your anxiety though. But if she knows it and thinks it's easy, she can always confirm she truly knows it by teaching it to someone else in an understandable manner. Besides, we retain like 80~90% of our knowledge more if we can teach it to some else in an understandable manner.
She may be annoying, but if she's really your close friend, then she should be able to understand if you tell her that you want help, because, that's what friends do, right?
If she's really being annoying, then maybe you should tell her off a bit. Sounds like she wants to engage you in other activities and make more friends, because she probably doesn't want you to stay anti-social. Just forcing you to overcome your shyness doesn't really help much, if it feels like she is doing that. It also may make it stressful for you in social situations, and it'll be much harder to overcome.[/SPOILER]
[SPOILER="Spoiler"]Well, the reason I dropped out Pre-Calculus is because it was too difficult for me to understand. I even tried to ask several different people, including the teacher to try and help me, and I even tried to use computer for it. I wouldn't just get it. But luckily, I took two math classes last year so I already have three years worth of credits, but two math classes was too much for me, but I still didn't give up and keep trying even tho I almost failed Geometry class last year (grade of D minus, uh-oh!), and I explained to counselor that I felt like I need to re-take Geometry this year so I can understand it more better. So I did.
And she would still continue to pressure me into joining back Pre-Calculus anyway, even though after I tried to explain to her that it's too difficult, and will only make my anxiety more worse... (I apparently have a bad anxiety disorder due to my gene inside, so I get panic attack easily, I even had one two weeks ago because of that class. [/SPOILER]
[SPOILER="Spoiler"]Also... I noticed that she tried to pressure many other students as well, like on last Thursday, she tried to force one guy to become homosexual, and I think... that made us, well... the gay community looked bad, and guy won't do it, so she went all "Do you at least accept gay people" and guy doesn't really do, and she got all mad at him, and tried to force him to accept it. Later that night, I went to same guy and told him to not worry about her, because he have his own opinion, and everyone else have their own opinion as well. The guy was grateful to have me as his friend, because he already knew I'm gay but he respected my opinions and I respected his as well.[/SPOILER]