How to Deal With This?

• bebepanales wrote on 2010-06-15 08:00
  i feel ya~ when g10 came out everyone was asking me to rp with them. i helped so much that my g10 was pushed back a LOT. after i had enough i just told the people who asked me that i need to work on my OWN g10. i just made sure to help my real friends, people who i've chilled with before. people who dont really know you who ask for your help you dont owe anything to. this newbie that added me randomly demanded that i help them get ms, even though i told him i was field bossing. he said COME NOW instead of being understanding. i deleted him. simple. :D rude people... just.... dont deserve help.
• Crimmy wrote on 2010-06-15 11:15
  I haven't been in this situation before either which is why I asked for advice. Mabi's the only mmo I've played for more than a month. I've already removed 18 people off and am stamping my foot down on the irritating ones. I'll probably go invisible for a while too and not accept any more requests for a while unless I really get to know them a bit. Thanks for the advice, guys.
  
  

  Quote from Archibald;64863:

  As far as people begging for help this is a major issue. Its like every other person on server has no friends and sees me with a good title and dragon shield and there for I MUST help them. I try to be polite but inside I'm screaming that I never had that much help and struggled it out as a noob and learned that way.

  
  
  Agreed. I've had help offered to me a couple of times throughout my nooby days but I never begged or irritated someone into helping me. I did a LOT of things solo and rather painfully too.
  
  I'll explain why I mentioned Tail defensive specifically. I know it's important and needs 3 people and is a real pain but I kinda suck at it. Everyone says "just get a giant" for it so I end up being a target for it all the time and I must help them even if I'm busy playing with my real friends. If they ask when I'm not busy, I ask if they have a good team, he says yeah, I run all the way to Tail and there's only him and his friend there. So I tell them to wait for more people to join but he decides we go in anyway. He dies and we fail. This is why I'm tired of it. Just because I'm a giant that does not make it instant easy. Otherwise, I'd be fine helping with it as long as you have a decent party so you don't make me run all the way to Tail for you to die and make it fail and waste my time.