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Hiccup wrote on 2011-12-11 23:50
Have to have good eyes, a good smile, a good sense of humor, takes care of themselves, likes to go out and do stuff, just the general stuff ya know.
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Juno wrote on 2011-12-12 05:16
Honesty, trustworthiness, no guts.
And not even at like 40+, no guts, ever, at all.
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Tarvos wrote on 2011-12-12 05:51
Personality-wise, someone who's intelligent and doesn't pull any of that "It's right because I said so!" crap. I'm someone who's very intense when it comes to arguing a subject, so I want someone who's strong also and able to debate rather than fight over a subject, because fighting never goes anywhere in a relationship. Other than that, I like girls who aren't judgmental and are really relaxed rather than super serious about everything. Also, something I can't tolerate is a personality that wants to change someone.
In terms of looks and other things, I like a lot of thing about a lot of different kinds of women, but a perquisite is a pretty face, and above all someone who doesn't fake their voice. Not that I don't like high pitched voices, I just don't like people who try to be what they're not. I vastly prefer small/petite girls to tall ones. And when I say tall, I mean taller than average tall, like a head over me... Around my height is fine. I guess I like the "cute" and "pretty" types over the "hot" and "sexy" ones too. Glasses on the right girl I find are incredibly attractive as well.
Personality is much more important (not to say looks aren't though, because they both are in my eyes) to me than looks however, because I find that I can come to like different types of looks and girls over time. A bad personality isn't something that I can come to appreciate though.
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Guyverunit4 wrote on 2011-12-12 05:59
I've currently given up on relationships as a whole, so I'm pretty much only attracted to men/women in a purely carnal matter.
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RebeccaBlack wrote on 2011-12-12 06:10
I definitely like the more aggressive girls. There's so much more I want to say than that but I'd rather not get banned. Can I get away with saying I love being forced into things? There's no other feeling like it.
Loyalty is the other main thing I look for, I won't take followers...
A connection is absolutely necessary. Sounds stereotypical, but really, it isn't. I'm so heavily one sided in many of my views that people will generally either love me or hate me. If I run into someone who isn't the kinda person I'm looking for, it's almost guaranteed not to work. I also have a tendency to enjoy discussing things and thus won't do well with anyone who feels offended when their views are challenged or anything like that. I love it when it gets heated.
I really hate disrespectful people. Oftentimes people will be nice to me and then talk **** about someone else (or take action against them) not realizing how terrible it looks to me. Depending on the severity I'll either discuss it with them or leave them on the spot. Don't be a ****ty person, okay? I don't care how much they "deserve it" because of your stupid, bull**** biased views of how others should live their lives. Just stop it.
Oh, and by the way, I don't care how funny, playful or witty you are. If I just want to laugh and have a good time, I'll watch standup comedy with you or something. And I do. A lot.
Physically? I dunno. Tattoos, piercings, wild hair, etc. It's not necessary at all but looks very attractive to me.
As for guys, I like ones who will date me ;__;
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Zid wrote on 2011-12-12 18:54
Adelynn has most of my requirements nailed on the head, actually. I won't explain what they are when I can just point to her.
I'll be honest here: at first, I didn't realize how much Adelynn fit into my ideal partner mold until much later into the relationship. I guess it's because when she asked me out, I wasn't looking for relationships during the time, and when I began my relationship with her, it was more about trying to get it to stay afloat in our situation, rather than focus on each other, our interests, what makes each of us special to each other, etc.
I never realized how important having lots of common interests is in relationships though, so I have that as a requirement. I barely can see myself in a "Opposites attract" relationship.
I'll say one thing I find attractive in women: a deep (but not too deep, like delving into male territory), sexy, sultry voice.
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Nanachi wrote on 2011-12-12 20:13
What I look for in a guy is a sense of humor, can handle sarcasm, ambition, intelligence, good hygiene a.k.a smells good, sincerity, open-mindedness, sweet, caring, and a cute face. I also find it really attractive if they have a sexy voice. (I don't really know how to explain the sound in words! :c) Luckily my boyfriend has all of these qualities. :)
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Adelynn wrote on 2011-12-13 18:07
Quote from Zid;689554:
Adelynn has most of my requirements nailed on the head, actually. I won't explain what they are when I can just point to her.
I'll be honest here: at first, I didn't realize how much Adelynn fit into my ideal partner mold until much later into the relationship. I guess it's because when she asked me out, I wasn't looking for relationships during the time, and when I began my relationship with her, it was more about trying to get it to stay afloat in our situation, rather than focus on each other, our interests, what makes each of us special to each other, etc.
I never realized how important having lots of common interests is in relationships though, so I have that as a requirement. I barely can see myself in a "Opposites attract" relationship.
I'll say one thing I find attractive in women: a deep (but not too deep, like delving into male territory), sexy, sultry voice.
STOP. BEING. ADORABLE. FFFFF----
Butdon'tIlikethat...
I'm attracted to guys that are mature and can take things seriously. Someone who's nice and helpful overall. If our beliefs are different it doesn't matter to me as long as we're not shoving it in each-other's face. Basically, an overall serious guy who's understanding. What's funny is Duy can come as so serious that I've gotten a few people asking me about it, but really, he's a cute, cuddly bear that's funny and adorkable. >////> I'm glad I got to know that side of him, despite the fact that it was different than what I first saw him as.
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Bankai231 wrote on 2011-12-14 00:42
That stuff you cant explain about her is what I look for in her.
That was supposed to be literal and poetic ;)
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Kollin wrote on 2011-12-14 03:59
Quote from Hiccup;688739:
Have to have good eyes, a good smile, a good sense of humor, takes care of themselves, likes to go out and do stuff, just the general stuff ya know.
Darn. I am unqualified to be with Brad. I don't smile often, my humor is a bit cruel, don't take care or care about myself, I don't like going out often. So incompatible, so sad. :fail2:
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Conor wrote on 2011-12-14 04:10
Quote from Kollin;691573:
Darn. I am unqualified to be with Brad. I don't smile often, my humor is a bit cruel, don't take care or care about myself, I don't like going out often. So incompatible, so sad. :fail2:
me neither let's be lonely together forever :(
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Morrigan wrote on 2011-12-14 04:16
Quote from Nanachi;689588:
What I look for in a guy is a sense of humor, can handle sarcasm, ambition, intelligence, good hygiene a.k.a smells good, sincerity, open-mindedness, sweet, caring, and a cute face. I also find it really attractive if they have a sexy voice. (I don't really know how to explain the sound in words! :c) Luckily my boyfriend has all of these qualities. :)
This. c: My boyfriend is silly, and he cares deeply about me. What more can a girl want.
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Strawberry wrote on 2011-12-14 04:28
Someone who can handle a lot, maybe a little, bit of sarcasm. Somebody who can freely express their thoughts without any worries at all, someone who is honest to others around them, and honest to themselves as well. Someone who has good hygiene. Someone who has unwavering goals and is content on getting to them.
Someone who is understanding and doesn't make a million assumptions. Someone who loves themselves for who they are, and not what they want to be, or who they want to be like for them to love themselves.
I'm leaning more towards personality-wise too. If you don't love yourself on the inside, then what's the chances you'll love yourself on the outside?
Looks do matter, but to me, it's just personal preference of what matters and what does not.
But that's okay -- /Foreveralone (ã¤Ð´)lll''
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Phunkie wrote on 2011-12-14 10:04
Humor's a big one. If you're funny, that goes a long way in my book. It's almost my only requirement. haha