Being that you live in Texas, you probably
could go to the east, but you'd be better off in the west. Texas is usually considered a western state so there will likely be other people in that general range.
Don't set your expectations too high. I live in the middle of the east coast and most of the time I get 2-4 bars from people. 1 if the person is behind a proxy, and 5 if the person is actually pretty close. Basically there's going to be a little bit of lag either way and even if you lived in the "perfect" place, you wouldn't see 5 bars very often.
Quote from hazardouspinata;716947:
Unless you have a decent connection :x But also mind that if you are east coast and you host a boat/mission thingy in the west, you may not lag, but your partners will
I'm not sure how much of a role a good connection/being behind a proxy truly plays, though. I met someone behind a proxy playing from Puerto Rico (which is nowhere near me) and they had 4 bars while I was hosting.