DEBATE: Divorce

• Chockeh wrote on 2010-07-28 22:35

  Quote from Phunkie;108479:

  Remind him that life is short! It's not worth holding your pride so high like that.
  
  Gosh, even falling in love challenges you to be a little less prideful in life.
  
  Ask him to get some time to think before acting so rashly. Anger never causes us to make the correct decisions.

  
  Like I said I did.
  There's more of a backstory to everything, but I'll keep that with me... For now.
• Phunkie wrote on 2010-07-28 22:42
  I'm really sorry.
  
  Just remember that sometimes it's best for two couple to be apart than together. Especially if they fight a lot.
  
  I've heard stories of parents who have separated and eventually get back together after some time. Like I said, distance makes the heart grow fonder and time always makes things better.
  
  Just keep trying! Convince him to take things slow; to think about things first with good judgment.
• Time wrote on 2010-07-28 22:45
  I cant really say much, but I hope everything turns out okay for you Chock, I really do...
• Chockeh wrote on 2010-07-28 22:45
  Hmmm... I hope it all works out.
  We really had happy times.
  And my dad, atm doesn't live with us anymore.
  I wonder how long you can stall divorce...
  He seems to get angrier and angrier too every time my mom tries to talk things out.
• Hiccup wrote on 2010-07-28 22:46
  Do it intervention style!
  
  Put surprise em with marriage counseling
• Chockeh wrote on 2010-07-28 22:47
  I can't even get my dad to come home D<.
  We have no idea where the hell he is half the time cause he closes the phone.
• Hiccup wrote on 2010-07-28 22:55
  Don't have it at your house. Say you wanna go out to dinner or summin, and SURPRISE!
• Phunkie wrote on 2010-07-28 22:56

  Quote from Chocklitshop;108507:

  Hmmm... I hope it all works out.
  We really had happy times.
  And my dad, atm doesn't live with us anymore.
  I wonder how long you can stall divorce...
  He seems to get angrier and angrier too every time my mom tries to talk things out.

  
  
  This obviously shows that he needs time.
  
  Maybe the thing he doesn't need right now is someone urging him to fix things.
  
  It's like when someone tells you to do something and you don't feel like doing it, you know?
  
  Tell him to take some time to think, as I've said.
  
  I'm pretty sure he won't say no to that.
• Chockeh wrote on 2010-07-28 23:03

  Quote from bradstrt;108531:

  Don't have it at your house. Say you wanna go out to dinner or summin, and SURPRISE!

  
  Surprise will get me killed and piss him off even more.'
  
  And yeah, I pretty much backed off to give him time. I told him to wait it out and all, the problem is... He wants a divorce NOW. It feels like he is being influenced by his mother and sister, that plays a major role to this problem...
• Mentosftw wrote on 2010-07-28 23:03
  Lock them together in a room where they have to cooperate to solve a puzzle which is the key to get out.
  
  >.>
  <.<
• Chockeh wrote on 2010-07-28 23:07
  I'm scared of leaving them together in a room and seeing a bloodshed.
• Zid wrote on 2010-07-29 00:42
  I hope things go well for you.
  
  As for your dad wanting a divorce now after doing all that and after all the pleading... just hope he changes his mind when comfortable.
• Chockeh wrote on 2010-07-29 00:43
  Thanks :/...
  
  EDIT: My dad just texted... *** i miss u *** and *** so much i will take care of u dont worry...
  :/...
• Chockeh wrote on 2010-07-30 00:01
  I feel like giving up...
  So does everybody...
  I'm gonna have a 1 on 1 talk with my dad...
  I don't know what to say, and I usually just chock :/.
  Any suggestions T_T?...
• Lan wrote on 2010-07-30 00:19

  Quote from Chocklitshop;110367:

  I feel like giving up...
  So does everybody...
  I'm gonna have a 1 on 1 talk with my dad...
  I don't know what to say, and I usually just chock :/.
  Any suggestions T_T?...

  
  
  Have a manly conversation ending with a manly hug.