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Mello wrote on 2012-10-19 01:00
Jesus H. Christ.... look at this
By the way, I'm the one that says Noah Sayers.
Don't call me Vijay, because I'm not him.
45 minutes agoAshiya Cieciellia-Cierra Smiley
I do like you that way...
44 minutes agoNoah Sayers
...
44 minutes agoAshiya Cieciellia-Cierra Smiley
LOL
rejection...
god, stop acting like Max already...
you guys are related!
I SWEAR!
he did the ellipses thingy too...
42 minutes agoNoah Sayers
Listen, you're nice and all, but I just don't think about you that way, I don't know you too well either?
41 minutes agoAshiya Cieciellia-Cierra Smiley
I knew it...
LOL
What do you want to know about me?
41 minutes agoNoah Sayers
You know, we can still be friends.
40 minutes agoAshiya Cieciellia-Cierra Smiley
LOL, I know, I was kidding
you
took
me
seriously
again.
you don't know me well
39 minutes agoNoah Sayers
...That wasn't very funny.
39 minutes agoAshiya Cieciellia-Cierra Smiley
why?
did you actually believe me?
I actually believed I believed myself for a second there too
38 minutes agoNoah Sayers
Uh.. yeah.
38 minutes agoAshiya Cieciellia-Cierra Smiley
wow, just wow
why?
lol, I have an obsession with your hair and hats, and that's about it
35 minutes agoNoah Sayers
Because, you've been tossing hints at me for months, and Breanna thinks you like me.
35 minutes agoAshiya Cieciellia-Cierra Smiley
WHUT?
I'm such a flirt, I talk like that with every guy I know, sorry...
that's my problem
I don't know how to talk to guys, then they start crushing on me
33 minutes agoNoah Sayers
Listen, if you really do like me, and that wasn't a joke, I'm sorry.
33 minutes agoAshiya Cieciellia-Cierra Smiley
I know like 10 people that like me
why should you be sorry for a joke?
31 minutes agoNoah Sayers
You caught me off gaurd.
That's not really a very good joke, what if I liked you?
31 minutes agoAshiya Cieciellia-Cierra Smiley
Lol and I am in love with like 10 people too AHAHAHAHAAHHAHA
30 minutes agoNoah Sayers
*guard
30 minutes agoAshiya Cieciellia-Cierra Smiley
well, do you?
honestly...
29 minutes agoNoah Sayers
Not that way, no.
But if I did, that would have been a kick to the eye.
29 minutes agoNoah Sayers
Not that way, no.
But if I did, that would have been a kick to the eye.
29 minutes agoAshiya Cieciellia-Cierra Smiley
a what?
28 minutes agoNoah Sayers
In other words, I would have felt hurt.
28 minutes agoAshiya Cieciellia-Cierra Smiley
why...
saying you like someone is not hard
tell me honestly
26 minutes agoNoah Sayers
How would you feel if Vijay said he liked you, then told you it was a joke? In this case I was just a bit bewildered.
25 minutes agoAshiya Cieciellia-Cierra Smiley
wow
okay
25 minutes agoAshiya Cieciellia-Cierra Smiley
then
25 minutes agoNoah Sayers
I'm being honest
25 minutes agoAshiya Cieciellia-Cierra Smiley
I still like you
I'm being honest as well
24 minutes agoNoah Sayers
Well, it's not that I have anything against you.
24 minutes agoAshiya Cieciellia-Cierra Smiley
I know
I'mma call Max now, any tips?
24 minutes agoNoah Sayers
We can still be friends.
23 minutes agoAshiya Cieciellia-Cierra Smiley
WE ARE FRIENDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
OMYGAWD AHAHAHAHHAHAHA
gtg, spill my love...
through the phone....
23 minutes agoNoah Sayers
I dunno, I still think you should tell him in person.
20 minutes agoAshiya Cieciellia-Cierra Smiley
If I ever see him
ever
lol
20 minutes agoNoah Sayers
Good luck.
20 minutes agoAshiya Cieciellia-Cierra Smiley
umm, what is his number?
19 minutes agoNoah Sayers
... How would I know? o.o
I don't know Maxes number.
:imdead:
God damn it..
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Yoorah wrote on 2012-10-19 01:12
To me it looks like she liked you and was serious about it, but when you rejected her, she wanted to lighten the mood by pretending it was just a joke.
But to answer your question: Given how this thing dragged out, yes, it's fine to be weirded out by it.
PS. You should edit the names. It would make it easier to read.. and we don't need to know the names, really.
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Taycat wrote on 2012-10-19 01:22
That was harder to read than it needed to be.
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paladin wrote on 2012-10-19 03:43
She liked you but you didnt take the hint
She tried to play it off but it kinda back fired
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Joker wrote on 2012-10-19 04:01
Quote from paladin;965692:
She liked you but you didnt take the hint
She tried to play it off but it kinda back fired
^ this in a nutshell
I was so dense in highschool a girl I sorta liked was pretty much hitting on me and I had no clue lol
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Kazuni wrote on 2012-10-19 04:31
35 minutes agoAshiya Cieciellia-Cierra Smiley
WHUT?
I'm such a flirt, I talk like that with every guy I know, sorry...
that's my problem
I don't know how to talk to guys, then they start crushing on me
33 minutes agoNoah Sayers
Listen, if you really do like me, and that wasn't a joke, I'm sorry.
33 minutes agoAshiya Cieciellia-Cierra Smiley
I know like 10 people that like me
why should you be sorry for a joke?
oh OUCH
that's how you know she got hit hard
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Mello wrote on 2012-10-19 05:56
Holy shit, she's claiming she never wants love (EVER) no children, no nothing, with anyone, sweet Jesus.
Quote from Joker;965705:
^ this in a nutshell
I was so dense in highschool a girl I sorta liked was pretty much hitting on me and I had no clue lol
In a way, I knew, but I didn't just wanna flat out tell her "I don't like you that way" also, I'm homeschooled bruh, I only see her like once a month anyway, I had a clue, I noticed her flirting, I just did nothing about it.
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psyal wrote on 2012-10-19 06:22
That probably wasn't a very good conversation to have without it being in person. It's hard to have a proper interaction otherwise.
From what I can tell, she was somewhat flustered from being rejected and tried to play it off as a joke to act as if it never happened. She probably isn't very experienced at it though.
Your reaction over the conversation was fairly good, but saying 'We can still be friends' is a really awkward thing to say. It's better to say 'I want us to still be friends'/'I want to still be your friend'. Doing this type of thing will probably make them try to pretend the conversation never happened, which could be why she tried playing it off as a joke.
Overall, you just need to inform them of your desires on the whole situation in one go, or else it can cause misunderstandings, awkwardness, and the such.
I'll give an example of how I would say it.
'Sorry, but I currently don't have those types of feelings towards you. I only have been seeing you as a friend. Plus, I don't know you too well yet. Going out with you without knowing you properly would be bad for the both of us, so for now, I cannot accept your feelings.'
Make sure that whatever you say is in your own word style though.
Also, if you're rejecting her that way, and she says it's a joke, let it be. In your situation, it seems that your forced her to confess twice, and be twice rejected improperly.
I'd suggest that you talk to her soon and explain your whole view of the matter more fully, unless you want your relationship with her to become awkward. Awkward being either her avoiding talking to you, or her pretending it was all a joke with little chance of recovery.
This is just my opinion on the matter though, which are most likely far from perfect. Hope it's helpful.
I'm somewhat confused though, about her and Max. Was she going to be talking to him right after to confess to him as well?
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Mello wrote on 2012-10-19 06:27
Quote from psyal;965770:
That probably wasn't a very good conversation to have without it being in person. It's hard to have a proper interaction otherwise.
From what I can tell, she was somewhat flustered from being rejected and tried to play it off as a joke to act as if it never happened. She probably isn't very experienced at it though.
Your reaction over the conversation was fairly good, but saying 'We can still be friends' is a really awkward thing to say. It's better to say 'I want us to still be friends'/'I want to still be your friend'. Doing this type of thing will probably make them try to pretend the conversation never happened, which could be why she tried playing it off as a joke.
Overall, you just need to inform them of your desires on the whole situation in one go, or else it can cause misunderstandings, awkwardness, and the such.
I'll give an example of how I would say it.
'Sorry, but I currently don't have those types of feelings towards you. I only have been seeing you as a friend. Plus, I don't know you too well yet. Going out with you without knowing you properly would be bad for the both of us, so for now, I cannot accept your feelings.'
Make sure that whatever you say is in your own word style though.
Also, if you're rejecting her that way, and she says it's a joke, let it be. In your situation, it seems that your forced her to confess twice, and be twice rejected improperly.
I'd suggest that you talk to her soon and explain your whole view of the matter more fully, unless you want your relationship with her to become awkward. Awkward being either her avoiding talking to you, or her pretending it was all a joke with little chance of recovery.
This is just my opinion on the matter though, which are most likely far from perfect. Hope it's helpful.
I'm somewhat confused though, about her and Max. Was she going to be talking to him right after to confess to him as well?
Yeah, this whole thing is weird, we both lack experience. (my first time rejecting anybody)
She was gonna call Max, and talk to him about how she likes him, I have no clue how her mind works.
Now she's claiming to be "heteromantinc" (Is that even a word?)
And that this was all "roleplay" because she wanted to rehearse for asking out Max, and said I'm taking her to seriously.
And, she brought the subject up, not me.
WHUUUUUUUUUT?
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Taycat wrote on 2012-10-19 08:36
Quote from Joker;965705:
^ this in a nutshell
I was so dense in highschool a girl I sorta liked was pretty much hitting on me and I had no clue lol
So you guys are now lovers 4ever
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RebeccaBlack wrote on 2012-10-19 20:35
I actually got mad reading this.
I'd stop talking to someone if they talked to me like that. I realize the awkwardness was because she wasn't thinking, but people like that have got to go. Anyone who says they like me and then gives a "you didn't think I really liked you, did you?" sort of statement after hearing an answer they don't like is letting their insecurities become destructive towards others to avoid their own natural feelings. Not only is it really fake of them, it's an exceptionally shitty thing to do and people who do so will never have any value to me. Not only that, she tried desperately to make you jealous right after that. She tried to get you all worked up and upset for not complying and aimed to make you compete with people for her own benefit. You should expect people to be more respectful than that. If I were you, I wouldn't even look at her again, regardless of how much of a shit you give about her, solely out of principal.
You probably shouldn't have put "..." as a response to someone telling you they like you, though. That definitely can set a person off and it's much better to just tell them you don't like them. It's no excuse for her to follow up as she did, but still.
...and now she's saying you're taking her too seriously? Ugh, these people are the fucking worst.
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Mello wrote on 2012-10-19 21:08
Any chances of me having feelings for her have been wiped, she knew I like somebody else anyway, so I don't see why she did this, she should have told me in person, she must not have liked me too much, if she told me online, called it a joke, then tried to make me jealous.