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Jedo wrote on 2013-04-18 21:19
I don't know how many know, but I was previously having friend problems, and it turns out they said a ton of crap about my family to their family because they wanted to "protect me". I learned why they did this and apparently during that time in their life they wanted to kill people and me included. A couple times previously this friend would say I want to kill you, I want to fucking kill you and your family sometimes.
So I stopped being their friend before I knew this due to a bad friendship, fighting, lies etc. So now they contact me saying they are all better and don't want to kill people because their grandmother "cured" them. I want to have nothing to do with this person anymore. Yet, no matter how many times I say I want nothing to do with them, they constantly message me and WHY WON'T YOU FORGIVE ME? Also, I AM BETTER! How should I proceed to have this person leave me alone? Because just telling them doesn't work. Even when I leave them alone they always end up appearing. >:l
P.s They also do a lot of the same things I do on the internet so that kind of sucks.
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Cynic wrote on 2013-04-18 21:38
Treat it like a regular case of harassment. Block 'em, ignore them completely, and so on.
The 2nd step is very important, as they will not leave you alone unless you ignore them 110%. Give them even 1 second of your time and you'll have to start again from square one.
Eventually they'll get bored and leave you alone.
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Osayidan wrote on 2013-04-18 22:18
Restraining order \o/
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xXAlexa33Xx wrote on 2013-04-18 22:18
Hi guys, it's me, the one he speaks of.
Wow, thanks for making me sound like a psychopath, Jedo, much appreciated. xD
ANYWAYS.
Let me tell you what he didn't.
Sooooo, I was having a lot of health problems. Like, a lot. Seizures, heart problems, weird problems, etc, etc. The medication I was on to help with this stuff made it easy for me to lose my cool. So, about twice, when I was on my period and I got mad at him for some stupid reason, I did shout out "UGGHHH, I JUST WANNA KILL YOU!! I HATE YOU I HATE YOU I HATE YOUUUU!!!" xD
Jedo, I never wanted to kill you. Ever. And I mean it. I was just pissed off, on medication, and on my period all at the same time lol.
So, anyways,, eventually, when I was pretty much afraid that I would die, I got depressed. Like, really depressed. I really didn't feel anything, including sympathy. When shootings and stuff would happen, I honestly just didn't care, and because of how truthful we were with each other, I told him that. At the time, I was just like "Ahh, fine, whatever. People die, it happens. I just don't care... I guess it's even good for the overpopulation problem, right?"
I was having really a difficult time with everything in my life at the time, and I just didn't care about anything, or really anyone. And I'm sorry for that.
I knew that I was too much for him to deal with anymore, and I was hurting him by still being with him. I said a lot of times that we shouldn't be friends anymore for his own health, but we always wound up back together again. So, basically, I lied to him and his family a bunch so that way they'd hate me, and never want anything to do with me again. I guess I never really thought about what I'd do when I was better and when I wanted to be his friend again.
Jed, I am better now, and goddamit, I mean it. I'm off of the medication, and at peace with life and shet.
So, yeah. There you have it. Sorry.
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Claudia wrote on 2013-04-18 22:33
...as an outsider I can't help but think that the initial incident was blown out of proportion.
and that none of this is really for our eyes
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Ithiliel wrote on 2013-04-18 22:38
Quote from Claudia;1070599:
...as an outsider I can't help but think that the initial incident was blown out of proportion.
and that none of this is really for our eyes
I have to agree. I know that you seemingly want advice on what to do, however I think this is something that the two of you should talk about amongst yourself instead of on the forum for everyone to see-and judge. As of right now, I'll let this be left open however it may possibly be closed if the behavior gets out of hand. As of right now, I'm going to discuss this with the staff since..this is a tricky area.
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Natural Harmonia Gropius wrote on 2013-04-18 22:38
Ignore them till they go away. If they end up stalking you, alert the authorities.
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xXAlexa33Xx wrote on 2013-04-18 22:49
He messaged me, saying that he's leaving the website to avoid me. Sorry, guys..... I guess I really screwed things up. Bleerrghhh...... Guilt, guilt........
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Ithiliel wrote on 2013-04-18 22:51
I'm going to go ahead and close this, since it honestly shouldn't have been posted in the first place since the said person is a member on the forum.
That being said, you two just need to work out any and all misunderstandings. Running away from the problem is never going to get it fixed, it just worsens it. You both are young, so I'm sure you have plenty of time to realize that and grow from it.
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Osayidan wrote on 2013-04-18 22:51
Closing this since he's apparently leaving so this thread is pretty irrelevant.
Anything else related to the situation can be taken to PMs or through some other means of communication that isn't public on Nation.