Just because
you don't think it's a shitty thing, doesn't mean others will agree with you. Some deaf people don't want to be helped with this, but other people
do. Moreover, I think the only one getting really defensive in this thread is you.
Deafness happens to be a handicap that interferes with the way many deaf people function. Not all of them will be bothered by this, and some people deal with this sort of thing better than others, but the truth is that deafness can cause problems for deaf people and the people that need to deal with them.
I've known different kinds of deaf people throughout my life, and have run into them while doing my job. Some seemed uncomfortable in general, while one of them casually used their phone to type out what they wanted from me, or pointed to the menu.
In any case. Don't be offended. This being deaf buisness isn't like being gay. No one's denying you rights based on the fact that you're deaf. If you don't like this, just don't do it. No one is forcing you to do this, people are just sharing their findings.
Deaf community and culture? You actually make them sound more alienated that way. Being born deaf isn't exactly a good thing. Parents having their child
not having a disability isn't like a parent giving their little baby piercings. Humans are meant to be able to hear things, and our communication is largely verbal. People aren't
making it look like a bad thing. It just
is. Sure, we have things like the internet now, where communicating without being able to hear or speak is pretty easy, but being able to hear and speak without having to deal with certain barriers is pretty damn nice for some people.
If you didn't know, if you don't have one out of all five senses available, one of your other senses will be stronger to make up for the loss of that sense.
A lot of blind people have stated that this is not the case. Apart from serving smoothies, I also work at an eyeglasses place. It's not that their senses get better. It's their skills at compensating for things that are lacking that improve.