Quote from Tarvos;1179989:
I feel a relative difference compared to what it used to be on Mari. Things seem a lot quieter, almost apathetic at times. I used to feel like the old big guilds were at each other's throats. Though, I try to stay in obscurity, so that's just what it seemed like for a player who started in a small guild and stayed in small guilds.
Mabi's players overall got more annoying, but this literally happens with any mmo past the initial stages of it's release. Bros and helpful players are plentiful one day, but then more people (by extension more assholes) join the game. Not to mention some of the players who started out humble turn out rotten later.
Though there's a certain guy who won't stop with the damn NX horns. I won't name him, but if you're from Mari... You'll know who I mean.
Hm.. I started in what I think was the largest guild, and definitely one of the oldest xD(see side of screen), and we were never like that haha.. which is exactly why I joined. xP I got wrecked on how stupid people in guilds could be and wanted to stay out of them, but I got to know a good few of the members by chance and just loved every one of them. xD
But I do get your point on things being quieter.. People are definitely less social these days.. though it is still possible to strike up conversation with a stranger and make a friend right there. Just much rarer. xD 'Cause you know, most everyone knows their friends, lots of which have lasted for many years now, and they kinda don't have any point to go talk to new people.. it's kinda sad, really. I don't exactly talk to anyone at random myself, but I'm never opposed to answering questions or reviving and treating the random dead person at least. x3
I've seen a lot of decay in some of the people I knew as well.. but I've seen a lot of maintaining oneself as well, so it's hit and miss there.. but yeah, the asshole population increasing.. this'll sound mean but xD I think is honestly due to them making it so user friendly, 'cause more often than not, the person who's being an asshole is just doing so because there's something somewhere in some way that they don't understand, and so they lash out. The dumber ones just don't know how to focus their anger on what makes them angry <w< but that's enough on that. xD
And ugh,
that guy. I was fine with the contests and doing people favors and etc. at first.. even though people were getting annoyed with him already back then. But man, all the furry talk and what not lately is just asinine. He's also a piece of shit as a person. <w< He harassed a friend of mine for much longer than humanly necessary for an honest mistake she made in some contest he held on the forums.. In short, I really detest the guy.
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Overall, I do find myself thinking back on how the game used to be, back when things were really unknown and looking forward to dual wielding was a thing. 8D But~ there's always the growth of your character, and of your own knowledge to look at that makes you feel good about getting where you are. I personally enjoy being able to tell someone nearly everything about the game when they're lost and etc. xD And if I never found my place in it, I'd have never gotten to the here and now, with all the strong relationships I've forged and learned from as well. :3 So I guess I do miss the days some times, there's no doubt about that~ but there's also of course, a lot of good that's come from getting this far, and it doesn't make me think about giving up on it one bit. >:3