Isn't Alexina the most populated server? I would think there's many people you can meet who aren't bad. Either people from here, or randomly meet in-game.
I wish more people joined Ruairi, especially new/friendly players because it sucks having everyone give me weird looks for not completing a storyline or not being able to easily kill a monster that they can when they're level 2000+(I'm 520).
Basically, I just wish there were less snobby people. :( Maybe I am just unlucky.
Then again, I find it hard to meet people in a big crowd because I worry that they'll ignore or kick me out of their circle or something for being too "noob". So I usually stick to meeting people who are either by themselves or in small groups(like 2) and seem nice. xD
I try to avoid elitists.