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Hanna wrote on 2014-05-27 16:39
So like I said I recently moved back with my family
My household consists of
-my aunt
-my uncle
-my cousin Cal
-my cousin Frankie
-me
Well, my aunt and uncle always talk shit about Cal's girlfriend.
I actually got to meet her and her kids, she's a sweet girl and a wonderful mom, her kids are so sweet, polite, and well behaved.
I asked them why they hated her so much, it's because she abuses pills.
Which is an understandable reason to dislike someone, right?
Well, everyone in this family, including me, abuses some sort of substance.
My uncle and father are alcoholics
My aunt and cousins are baked and pilled-out 24/7
I- well, I'd rather not get into that, well point is none of us are in any position to judge her and I dislike the shit talk my family constantly does
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TLCBonaparte wrote on 2014-05-27 17:03
Haha, yeah, you should call them out on it.
IMO that's not really why they hate her. I won't presume to know what they really think but often people have underlying motives to hate someone. If you want to help her you should try getting to the bottom of this and maybe some mediation will fix this. Try not to take side though, mediation is about asking the right questions so people can think about what you said and if they can, reach the conclusion you hope they would.
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Elleanior wrote on 2014-05-27 17:05
I'm surprised that the hypocrisy in the atmosphere doesn't choke you lol
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Kaeporo wrote on 2014-05-27 17:14
Quote from Hanna;1222151:
So like I said I recently moved back with my family
[SPOILER=" "]My household consists of
-my aunt
-my uncle
-my cousin Cal
-my cousin Frankie
-me
Well, my aunt and uncle always talk shit about Cal's girlfriend.
I actually got to meet her and her kids, she's a sweet girl and a wonderful mom, her kids are so sweet, polite, and well behaved.
I asked them why they hated her so much, it's because she abuses pills.
Which is an understandable reason to dislike someone, right?
Well, everyone in this family, including me, abuses some sort of substance.
My uncle and father are alcoholics
My aunt and cousins are baked and pilled-out 24/7
I- well, I'd rather not get into that, well point is none of us are in any position to judge her and I dislike the shit talk my family constantly does[/SPOILER]
[video=youtubeold;0CH1Tu9-oSU]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0CH1Tu9-oSU&feature=kp[/video]
Might as well be your theme song.
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Taycat wrote on 2014-05-27 21:12
they probably don't like that she has kids
lots of people don't like it when a lady has kids that aren't her boyfriends' kids