Welcome back.
A lot has changed since then, so you might want to read up on
this.
+Saga II, Ninja talent, and Gen. 19 Divine Knight (+new skills).
Melee is very viable, and in fact, it's one of the best talents right now. Moreover, the good part of melee involves 2H and mostly lances.
For leveling up, MA spam, conflict spam, and saga ep 4.
As for good way of making money, I'd say conflict HM spam, buying/reselling, selling blacksmith'd skurikens, crafted guns, savage wands, purple hearts, ect.
The best way is to pour real life money into the game, but i don't think that's a good way to spend money.
Once you get a decent sum of money, buying a dye well off another player may be a good idea.