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• lynn902 wrote on 2015-04-27 18:01
  Hi, i am upgrading my weaving skill so i make spider farm in tir chonail graveyard.
  when i getting cobweb someone came to my spot and open his kristell bag, taking all my cobweb
  i tell him i made this spot and taking cobweb, so go other spot to make for himself
  but he didnt listen to me and harassing me he said "i can hacking ur account and steal everything", "do you own this server so u can kick me?" "i didnt steal ur spot, my doll does"
  i was so angry but my first language is not english so i just said i will leave and told him go *** ur self
  am i wrong? its true i didnt own this server but for manner, he cant just come to my spot and steal my farm..
  i feel so sad right now. i think mabinogi is good game which has good manner player. i am so disappointed
• Rydian wrote on 2015-04-27 18:08
  You can change channels from the main menu and he won't be around anymore.
• ironwoman wrote on 2015-04-27 18:23
  Yes, you're wrong. If there's another guy on the spot, just go to another channel. Not hard to do. Telling the guy to go fuck himself won't do much. You were basically being as immature as he was by saying that.
  
  You can also make a spider farm near Emain Macha.
• lynn902 wrote on 2015-04-27 18:31
  u guys are same. cant understand my feeling, cuz u guys didnt experience that situation before.
  all cause is i looks noob so he can do whatever he want..
• Yanm wrote on 2015-04-27 18:34

  Quote from lynn902;1272595:

  u guys are same. cant understand my feeling, cuz u guys didnt experience that situation before.
  all cause is i looks noob so he can do whatever he want..

  
  
  Look at you now, you're assuming we haven't. MAJORITY of everyone here has had their spider farms destroyed by someone else or stolen. We know what it's like, but there isn't anything you really can do. Arguing won't change anything, the best you can do is just go somewhere else and make another farm. We didn't just start Mabi and had "non-noob" characters. We were newbies at some point and this has happened to us. As I said, your best bet is to go to another channel and make another farm.
• Oberynn wrote on 2015-04-27 18:46
  There are assholes everywhere whether it's a game or not.
  
  If you can't reason with them, then just remove yourself from the situation and try again. As long as you're interacting with other people you'll have both good and bad experiences.
• lynn902 wrote on 2015-04-27 18:47
  i know i change my channel and make another farm now. i am just angry about ironwoman's attitude.
  if this happen to you. are u sure u cant swear him? also i didnt swear him at first, he is the first who start and show his immature attitude first not me.
• Yai wrote on 2015-04-27 18:49
  To be honest in situations like that it is probably best just to change channel without causing further drama by provoking them. I understand its frustrating but swearing at them is only going to cause more problems.
  
  In future go north of Emain Macha and make a farm there, a lot less people frequent it and when I was ranking weaving early on no one disturbed me.
• Darkboy132 wrote on 2015-04-27 18:52

  Quote from lynn902;1272595:

  u guys are same. cant understand my feeling, cuz u guys didnt experience that situation before.
  all cause is i looks noob so he can do whatever he want..

  
  
  First of all, calm down.
  
  Second, again there's nothing you can do but leave and move on. If you want revenge and "if I can't have it then no one can" kind of thing, kill the stolen spider farm before leaving.
• Bunny wrote on 2015-04-27 18:52
  [FONT="Arial"]When I was ranking weaving and someone leeched off my spider farm at Emain, I destroyed my own spider farm and changed channels.
  That way, they have to work for their farm (and I get to come back and totally wreck their's)
  
  HA.
  
  That's one way I dealt with those people.[/FONT]
• Kingofrunes wrote on 2015-04-27 18:54

  Quote from lynn902;1272600:

  i know i change my channel and make another farm now. i am just angry about ironwoman's attitude.
  if this happen to you. are u sure u cant swear him? also i didnt swear him at first, he is the first who start and show his immature attitude first not me.

  
  
  I wouldn't mind ironwoman. They don't have a very beginner friendly attitude. It was pretty rude of the guy to do that to you. I would be mad too if I went through all that effort and then someone came by and claimed it for themselves.
  
  As everyone else said, better to just CC and try again as arguing with another asshole isn't going to get you anywhere but frustration and anger.
  
  Of course destroying the farm on them is also a good idea, gets them to leave :P
• ironwoman wrote on 2015-04-27 19:22

  Quote from lynn902;1272595:

  u guys are same. cant understand my feeling, cuz u guys didnt experience that situation before.
  all cause is i looks noob so he can do whatever he want..

  
  
  Look, we all had to train skills at some point, we all had to make spider farm, etc. I can't stress how many times a person came up to my spider farm, and "accidentally" destroy it while trying to collect webs from there because he had his weapon on and splashed. Another example was when I was training Enthralling Performance, and I was doing this at Tir Chonail graveyard. I train with the spiders, for about a good hour, and this one guy starts to firebolt them. I ask, "can you stop and train your firebolt somewhere else?" The guy just summons his pets and kills all the spiders I gathered. It's annoying, I know.
  
  So what do I do? I say to myself "well then, I guess I'll just go somewhere else since these people are too douchey/immature to have basic manners". You can't always expect people to have good manners in this game, it is the internet after all, where people will be able to throw all sorts of insults regarding your mother and still get away with it, especially in this game, since it's pretty clear Nexon is almost like honey badger. It doesn't matter how "noob" or "pro" you look, there will always be dumbasses.
  
  The less you argue with people in game, the more you'll enjoy this game, that's my take on this game. If you see annoying people, just go away from them. Don't be provoked into arguing. If they start swearing at you first, just blacklist them or ignore them. You're in no way required to answer these fools.
• Kazusa Touma wrote on 2015-04-28 01:41
  i don't really remember what i did
  
  i just remember getting pissed when one guy came and windmilled all my spiders =C i probably just cc'd or just made the farm all over again when he left though
• Kaeporo wrote on 2015-04-28 03:09

  Quote from Hosea Jan Frank:

  If someone carves into a sapling with a knife, the injury is as wide as the entire trunk. Though that mark will never fully heal, you can grow the tree around it, and as you grow, the scar gets smaller in proportion.

  
  
  Embrace this as an opportunity to learn more about yourself and the world around you. Man would not have learned to respect the raging strength of fire had they not witnessed it firsthand; their seared flesh serving as a fierce reminder of the occasion.
  
  In any capacity, you will adapt to these situations in time. Words which once drew angst, will become mere folly in the invincible expanse of wisdom. You'll learn to accept criticism, no matter how sharp and perhaps one day you'll procure a Kristell bag or something, dude come on.
• Odinwolfe wrote on 2015-04-28 05:42
  Nice blog.