Mabinogi drama and you.

• Raishii wrote on 2015-06-17 01:31
  The only "drama" I've ever had was when I was selling tons of Exploration Page 3's for really cheap 6+ months ago. (I had a ton because I spammed glowy dungeons all day to collect glowy transes 'cause was going for all 320 transes) This one dude got upset and noted me saying I was ruining page market for him and insisted I was "stupid and greedy," then threatened to tell glowing statue sellers not to sell their statues to me, lol.
  
  I kinda just laughed it off and moved on.
• Kyishi wrote on 2015-06-17 01:44

  Quote from Zeo;1278728:

  
  Ah, yeah. I have lot of connections in game, so I can easily ruin a person's reputation if I really wanted to, but I don't do it until it's the last case though. It's probably why when I confronted some of the problematic players and they backed in a corner a bit.

  
  
  try me bb
  
  
  i've had so many funny drama stories, it's pretty fun thinking back on them.
  
  just to name a few of my favorites
  
  * A friend in my guild asked to buy a lvl 20 commerce portia for me for a pretty low price of 10m. I agreed, and the next day the guild leader told me that my friend resold it for 30m. I was soooooooooooooooooooooooooo mad. I deleted him and cussed him out and swore i'd never talk to him again. He insisted he didnt do anything wrong and that I should just get over it but he eventually gave me gold because he "felt bad" smh.
  
  * My guild really hated another guild, but I had a crush on one of the members there. My guild leader basically told me straight up if I dated him I wasn't allowed in their guild anymore. I ended up dating him anyway and he got super pissed, along with the guild officer. They both told me I would be kicked from the guild and got super pissed about it but I made the officer talk to my (now ex) bf and he was cool with it. The guild leader never did, though, and everytime I logged on mabi he'd ask me if I dumped him yet.
  
  * There was once a story about a girl and a boy who were super obsessed with each other and did everything they could to spite the other when they were fighting. I was friends with the boy, unfortunately, and when he found out he was going on a trip to the city I live he thought it would be great to fabricate stories about seeing me. Next thing you know I'm hearing rumors about how I apparently went to a hotel with him and smoked weed. Never even seen the guy, but his gf hated me and still hates me.
  
  All of my other mabi drama is probably too personal to talk about, and wasn't really on mabi anyway. Just generated from there.
• Zeo wrote on 2015-06-17 03:12
  Ugh, guild drama usually are the worst... Especially in a game like Mabinogi. It's hard to find a good guild without having few members talking shit behind your back which would get you in trouble because the guild leader thought it was true.
• Twin wrote on 2015-06-17 03:28
  I avoid drama like the plague if it's unnecessary .
• Darkboy132 wrote on 2015-06-17 03:48

  Quote from Zeo;1278755:

  Ugh, guild drama usually are the worst... Especially in a game like Mabinogi. It's hard to find a good guild without having few members talking shit behind your back which would get you in trouble because the guild leader thought it was true.

  
  
  Not related to Mabi, but in another game the guild I was in didn't really meet my interests. I tried to GENTLY explain that, but how did they react? Kicked.
  
  Wow, extremely rude much?
• Kaeporo wrote on 2015-06-17 03:51
  You shaved your head and glued your hair to a Sabina doll. I don't know...that's pretty fucking weird.
  
  I've heard a lot of different people talk trash about you but none of it extended beyond that peculiarities of that event.
  
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  I will agree that excessive drama doesn't add anything meaningful to a community. That being said, it's important to realize that we're all different and that our diversity only makes us stronger. That's more important to me than the complete absolution of conflict, within reason.
  
  It's important to be open minded and to take criticism at face value. You can get offended but you shouldn't let that inhibit your ability to reason. I rarely find myself in arguments beyond the specific implementation of game mechanics. It's good to let things get a little bit heated, since it means people are invested in the outcome; gives the whole thing weight.
• Zeo wrote on 2015-06-17 04:02

  Quote from Kaeporo;1278761:

  You shaved your head and glued your hair to a Sabina doll. I don't know...that's pretty fucking weird.
  
  I've heard a lot of different people talk trash about you but none of it extended beyond that peculiarities of that event.

  
  
  Not sure how it's weird, since some dolls actually used real hair. But I didn't really 'glue' the hair on it... I just rooted it into the hair. Anyway, the event is long over and I do think people should get over it now.
  
  

  I will agree that excessive drama doesn't add anything meaningful to a community. That being said, it's important to realize that we're all different and that our diversity only makes us stronger. That's more important to me than the complete absolution of conflict, within reason.
  
  It's important to be open minded and to take criticism at face value. You can get offended but you shouldn't let that inhibit your ability to reason. I rarely find myself in arguments beyond the specific implementation of game mechanics. It's good to let things get a little bit heated, since it means people are invested in the outcome; gives the whole thing weight.

  
  
  Yes, criticisms are always good, but I've pointed it out that if you can't think of anything nice to say for your criticism, then you should keep it to yourself.
• Darkboy132 wrote on 2015-06-17 04:02

  Quote from Kaeporo;1278761:

  You shaved your head and glued your hair to a Sabina doll. I don't know...that's pretty fucking weird.

  
  
  I've seen TV shows like Criminal Minds do similar things. However, Zeo simply used it to submit an event, and I respect him for being creative.
  
  You could argue that it's "inhumane" to use animal fur to make hair. @_@
• Raishii wrote on 2015-06-17 04:15

  Quote from Darkboy132;1278764:

  
  You could argue that it's "inhumane" to use animal fur to make hair. @_@

  
  
  Lol, weave.
• Zeo wrote on 2015-06-17 04:55
  Oh hey, another pointless drama someone tried to make about me like 15 minutes ago.
  
  Someone made a thread called "Worst problems on Mabinogi" which is just the OP complaining about the support system.
  
  However, someone made a post that said...
  
  "Zeo ."
  
  It's pretty funny.
• EndlessDreams wrote on 2015-06-17 05:29
  I never been part of any drama before.
  
  Usually, people who complain of drama is part of the reason for the drama. Even when they switch all their friends/circle, they still somehow attract drama.
• Meiji wrote on 2015-06-17 06:56

  Quote from Kyishi;1278748:

  * A friend in my guild asked to buy a lvl 20 commerce portia for me for a pretty low price of 10m. I agreed, and the next day the guild leader told me that my friend resold it for 30m. I was soooooooooooooooooooooooooo mad. I deleted him and cussed him out and swore i'd never talk to him again. He insisted he didnt do anything wrong and that I should just get over it but he eventually gave me gold because he "felt bad" smh.

  Funny, I heard a similar story where the girl sold her portia to her friend for a low price that she herself agreed on. Then got buttmad when she found out he sold it, because she's spiteful like that, and made a HUGE deal out of it in guild chat. She literally would not stop complaining until he gave her gold so she'd shut up. Eventually she realized she was wrong, though. And being childish. And unreasonable. And dramatic. And childish.
  
  It's just a coincidence story...
• Syliara wrote on 2015-06-17 07:16
  This thread itself is a drama magnet and probably wasnt a good idea...
• Tropa wrote on 2015-06-17 07:42

  Quote from Syliara;1278794:

  This thread itself is a drama magnet and probably wasnt a good idea...

  
  
  I agree with this.
• Kyishi wrote on 2015-06-17 07:46

  Quote from Meiji;1278791:

  Funny, I heard a similar story where the girl sold her portia to her friend for a low price that she herself agreed on. Then got buttmad when she found out he sold it, because she's spiteful like that, and made a HUGE deal out of it in guild chat. She literally would not stop complaining until he gave her gold so she'd shut up. Eventually she realized she was wrong, though. And being childish. And unreasonable. And dramatic. And childish.
  
  It's just a coincidence story...

  
  
  Nah, in my story said friend made the girl promise that she wouldn't show anyone the screenshots of him being "soft and kind" to her when he was making things right. :^) A promise she wishes she didn't keep.........