What is love

• Phunkie wrote on 2011-01-07 19:24
  Never give up!
  
  I believe that there is someone out there for you. Maybe not "the one," could be more than one person, but there are definitely people out there who would love you for who you are. :)
• Devoth wrote on 2011-01-07 20:03
  Personally, I feel that searching for someone is counterproductive. Most people do indeed want 'the one', and the longer you search, the more disappointed and the more exhausted you'll become. With time, you'll begin to make sacrifices that leave you looking for just anyone who will accept you. I've never actually gone searching for love myself, nor have I made it an important goal in my life.
• Mama wrote on 2011-01-07 20:08

  Quote from Devoth;280561:

  Personally, I feel that searching for someone is counterproductive. Most people do indeed want 'the one', and the longer you search, the more disappointed and the more exhausted you'll become. With time, you'll begin to make sacrifices that leave you looking for just anyone who will accept you. I've never actually gone searching for love myself, nor have I made it an important goal in my life.

  
  
  i never looked for it either, but sometimes you cant help but fall in love with someone you spend time with, and that snowballs from there, hopefully for the better.
  making it a goal is a bad thing. it just happens.
  i guess saying 'find the one' made it seem that way, but yeah I don't! :what:
• Devoth wrote on 2011-01-07 20:10

  Quote from Mama;280574:

  i never looked for it either, but sometimes you cant help but fall in love with someone you spend time with, and that snowballs from there, hopefully for the better.
  making it a goal is a bad thing. it just happens.
  i guess saying 'find the one' made it seem that way, but yeah I don't! :what:

  
  
  Heheh, nah, was just a side thought of mine. I know quite a few people who have done A LOT of searching.
• Mama wrote on 2011-01-07 20:14

  Quote from Devoth;280576:

  Heheh, nah, was just a side thought of mine. I know quite a few people who have done A LOT of searching.

  
  
  haha. it's like searching for 'enlightenment', once you decide to search for it you're already going in the wrong direction XD
• Phunkie wrote on 2011-01-07 20:27
  Yup, don't search. Just let it come to you, but don't just literally sit and wait for it, be social.
  
  If you're not social, it's hard for you to meet people.
• Adelynn wrote on 2011-01-07 21:08

  Quote from Devoth;280561:

  Personally, I feel that searching for someone is counterproductive. Most people do indeed want 'the one', and the longer you search, the more disappointed and the more exhausted you'll become. With time, you'll begin to make sacrifices that leave you looking for just anyone who will accept you. I've never actually gone searching for love myself, nor have I made it an important goal in my life.

  
  
  I think people need to find a happy medium. Don't search so hard you look that desperate, but at the same time, be social when you can.
  
  Me, I wasn't searching at all, I was just hanging out with random people and then things happened. x/////x;
• Raj wrote on 2011-01-08 00:03

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  Wait, huh?
  
  What do you mean? I totally agree with you.
  
  Did I make a typo or something?

  
  
  

  Most of the time, you're thinking about cuddling with the other person and perhaps holding hands or even kissing him or her and whispering soft things in his or her ear. Being with that person completes you more than anything in the world; even something as watching that person sleep becomes entertaining, fulfilling.

  
  
  I think about how I want her to trust me more, not this. -.-''
• Phunkie wrote on 2011-01-08 00:06

  Quote from Raj;280870:

  I think about how I want her to trust me more, not this. -.-''

  
  
  Oh, of course.
  
  But I was just using that as an alternative to the not thinking about sex. Holding each other is nice.
• Raj wrote on 2011-01-08 00:07

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  Oh, of course.
  
  But I was just using that as an alternative to the not thinking about sex. Holding each other is nice.

  
  
  Nope. I quit.
  I'm going to end it now. I'm losing her anyway. xD
• Phunkie wrote on 2011-01-08 00:12

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  Nope. I quit.
  I'm going to end it now. I'm losing her anyway. xD

  
  
  Did you try everything? :(
• Devoth wrote on 2011-01-08 01:06

  Quote from Phunkie;280885:

  Did you try everything? :(

  
  
  Perhaps it's better to let it go to see if it comes back.. Or to see if it just wasn't the right path in the first place.
• Phunkie wrote on 2011-01-08 01:09

  Quote from Devoth;280993:

  Perhaps it's better to let it go to see if it comes back.. Or to see if it just wasn't the right path in the first place.

  
  
  I don't like that sort of stuff. I mean, sometimes, it is best. But pushing someone away or letting someone go just to see if they'll return to you, it sometimes can end up badly. Some people do return, but some people don't (even though they love you). Sometimes talking about things is best.
• Devoth wrote on 2011-01-08 01:37

  Quote from Phunkie;281000:

  I don't like that sort of stuff. I mean, sometimes, it is best. But pushing someone away or letting someone go just to see if they'll return to you, it sometimes can end up badly. Some people do return, but some people don't (even though they love you). Sometimes talking about things is best.

  
  
  Well, I've heard part of this story, so I'm basing my judgment off of that.
• Raj wrote on 2011-01-10 04:14
  Oh we've talked about it.
  She knows it's going to happen.
  I know it's going to happen.
  [SIZE="1"]I tell her I'm chill with it but I really don't want to lose her.[/SIZE]