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TropicalCat wrote on 2012-02-18 01:39
I know how you feel exactly, I just ignore them and try to forgot about what They did.
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Cynic wrote on 2012-02-18 01:45
Talking is usually the best option, so hopefully they will be at-least somewhat willing to discuss it with you. If they care enough and aren't ridiculously arrogant/stubborn, though, I imagine they will.
Change isn't easy for everyone (even if in reality it's only trying to be more respectful/tolerant), but if a relationship means enough, I don't see why they won't try.
Just don't strain yourself too much either.
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Chihaya wrote on 2012-02-18 04:27
Be mad at someone while you still love them?
You can't do that.
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Milk wrote on 2012-02-18 07:35
Confront them with the reason why you are mad at them. If you do that they will most likely avoid talking to you or the issue could be solved if that person cares about you.
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TLCBonaparte wrote on 2012-02-18 07:37
Quote from Sumpfkraut;777484:
Yeah, well, I want to stay mad at someone, but I can't manage to because I love them too much, and am too nice a person, so I really have trouble being able to stop being helpful and nice to them.
Anyone have any ideas? It's rather important.
I hear smoking weed yields signifiant hatred staying power, you should look into that, and if you need...eh... connection, I can get you some (dart eyes)
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Milk wrote on 2012-02-18 07:59
Seriously .-. Pot heads aren't cool.
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TA wrote on 2012-02-18 08:05
Unfortunately, what you're asking is contradictory.
You can't have both. Staying consistently mad at someone isn't healthy anyways.
Honestly, I think you need to just sit down and have a talk and work out your differences. If you can't do that, then something like a councilor that could act as a medium might be able to help you work through your problems, and understand one another's emotional state.
Is this a friend, a lover, a relative or what?
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TLCBonaparte wrote on 2012-02-18 08:08
Quote from Milk;777875:
Seriously .-. Pot heads aren't cool.
lol I was just kidding. I don't even drink.
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Cookieknight wrote on 2012-02-23 08:58
try to remember the bad things they did to u or something.
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Sumpfkraut wrote on 2012-02-23 10:32
The issue has been resolved, I've managed to stay mad long enough to be able to start my "be consequent about avoiding her" policy, so it's fine.
Thanks everyone anyway.