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RebeccaBlack wrote on 2012-05-05 13:09
Quote from Phunkie;856234:
On 4/20, he met a kid at some McDonald's and went home with him and fucked him on one of his "manic episodes." Beyond ridiculous.
He fucked some homeless kid? Oh my god... how old was he? How did that even happen? Did he just randomly approach him on the street, start talking to him, and eventually it led to sleeping together? I mean, what...? That's such a weird situation, even for someone who is very horny.
Have you ever literally told someone you didn't want to be his or her friend anymore?
I've had to sometimes, yeah. I'm not gonna feel like crap around them all day knowing I can't stand them, so it's the only option.
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Episkey wrote on 2012-05-05 14:59
Well, I'm sorry to hear that you had to break some friendships - but maybe it was for the best.
I personally have never told anyone that I didn't want to be their friend anymore. I've come close, but I was try to mend relationships before that happens. I've been lucky to have most people respond positively to any feedback or advice I might give.
I just hope that they are able to make better life decisions. Although, they might just repeat their same mistakes ...
Quote from RebeccaBlack;856360:
He fucked some homeless kid? Oh my god... how old was he? How did that even happen? Did he just randomly approach him on the street, start talking to him, and eventually it led to sleeping together? I mean, what...? That's such a weird situation, even for someone who is very horny.
Also this. That was very disturbing to even read that such a thing happened :T_T:
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Rin wrote on 2012-05-05 16:15
I doubt they'll actually learn though, because you left. The way you described them doesn't seem hopeful.
As much as losing one friend may be eventful, it's also dependent on how much they value you, especially if they have a number of other friends (for replacement or whatever).
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Phunkie wrote on 2012-05-05 18:06
Quote from Sumpfkraut;856326:
If you're that full of rage, going to sleep will present itself as difficult already.
And no, a good night of sleep might not do the job, you're probably gonna think back at some point, and unless your brain works in a really special way that'll cause arousal during at least the next few days, but probably weeks. It's worth it though. Also you might have a sort of background noise stomach ache throughout the first days (maybe it's different for people, that's what I get anyway), but it's nothing worrisome.
You're right, haha.
I feel less angry, but that stomach feeling is def there.
Quote from RebeccaBlack;856360:
He fucked some homeless kid? Oh my god... how old was he? How did that even happen? Did he just randomly approach him on the street, start talking to him, and eventually it led to sleeping together? I mean, what...? That's such a weird situation, even for someone who is very horny.
The kid he met was 18. The dude was 21.
And I dunno. He's still screwing around with him. The kid he met has no real home, he just sleeps over at different people's houses.
I dunno?
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Claudia wrote on 2012-05-05 18:39
Yeah, i've told people that our friendship is over.
Sucks, but you'll definitely feel much better. Sometimes I wonder if it was the right choice but in the end, I think it definitely was.
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Claudia wrote on 2012-05-05 18:39
Yeah, i've told people that our friendship is over.
Sucks, but you'll definitely feel much better. Sometimes I wonder if it was the right choice but in the end, I think it definitely was.
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RebeccaBlack wrote on 2012-05-05 19:38
Quote from Phunkie;856469:
The kid he met was 18. The dude was 21.
Oh, I thought you meant kid as in like 12-14ish. It's still pretty weird that he pulled some homeless guy off the street and slept with him no matter what the age.
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Phunkie wrote on 2012-05-05 19:53
Quote from RebeccaBlack;856522:
Oh, I thought you meant kid as in like 12-14ish. It's still pretty weird that he pulled some homeless guy off the street and slept with him no matter what the age.
'Cause he's bipolar and he hasn't been taking his meds, so he acts on impulse sometimes.
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Ithiliel wrote on 2012-05-05 22:07
Quote from Phunkie;856533:
'Cause he's bipolar and he hasn't been taking his meds, so he acts on impulse sometimes.
Don't use that excuse for him Phunkie, I hate when people use that as an excuse for behavior. :<
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Phunkie wrote on 2012-05-06 04:26
Quote from Ithiliel;856606:
Don't use that excuse for him Phunkie, I hate when people use that as an excuse for behavior. :<
Well, I like to try and give people excuses. If he's crazy, he's crazy.
Nonetheless, he has no control of his life.
I feel so much better today. I know I did the right thing because it was tough and doing the right thing is always tough. Plus, I had all of your reassurance, guys. Thanks!
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Pierce wrote on 2012-05-06 06:00
Quote from Phunkie;856234:
She smokes weed like crazy too. Fucking potheads.
Looks like you need to "cut out" prejudice and stereotypes from your life as well.
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Phunkie wrote on 2012-05-06 07:30
Quote from Pierce;856967:
Looks like you need to "cut out" prejudice and stereotypes from your life as well.
Give me a break.
You haven't been the one dealing with the issue for months.
I'm talking about people who spend $80-$100 a week on marijuana and then complain about being broke all the dang time. Like, seriously?
People who smoke weed to the point where they pass out and don't wanna do anything anymore for like 4 hours.
People who go to work high all the damn time because they claim they can't deal with it sober.
Prejudice?? Come on.
If I spent $100 on alcohol weekly and walked around every day drunk, you have every right to call me an alcoholic because I obviously depend on that crap.
I'm open-minded. It is due to these people why I tried marijuana in the first place. Was fun. Was pretty interesting. But now, I'm just so turned off to the idea because of these two individuals.
I don't wanna be no lazy ass pothead.
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Cynic wrote on 2012-05-06 08:39
To add to what Phunkie is saying..
Being a pothead really is no different from being an alcoholic. Sure, the substance itself isn't addicting, but it's no less addictive than drugs or alcohol if you have an addictive personality. (which is a lot more common than most will like to admit) ANYTHING can be addictive if you have an addictive personality; I have a computer addiction. Does that mean the computer itself is addictive? Obviously, no. But that doesn't stop me from being addicted to it.
Just because it can't kill you like drugs can doesn't make it any less destructive or dangerous. If it fucks up your life in any way (though usually financially), then yeah, it's bad.
Just because a few people can smoke weed without it majorly ruining their life doesn't mean it's impossible. In-fact, it's becoming more and more common. People are just too arrogant to get it through their thick skulls and accept the truth.
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Taycat wrote on 2012-05-06 09:28
Believe me, my own parents smoke pot and cigarettes constantly. Even my older sister. It's come to the point that I detest all smoking and those who do smoke. If I find a person who smokes, I'll most likely cut them from my life before they can even begin to poison the air around me...
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Cynic wrote on 2012-05-06 09:39
The thing find most amusing about it all (besides the denial) is most potheads try and make it out like they're better than everyone else; ohh, look at me, I smoke weed! It's not bad because it's natural!
At-least have the guts to admit you have a problem and try and deal with it, don't hide behind your addiction like you're better than everyone else when really, you're the worst kind of addict; the one who's too stupid and arrogant to admit there's something wrong with them.
Honestly, I've met low-life druggies who act better than some potheads. And that's sayin' something.