Quote from Ashikoki;1086043:
I've actually been in the complete opposite environment. Perhaps you're speaking from personal experience only?
My personal experience has been that almost everyone believes you trade school is a waste of time, and college is the only answer for success. But to be frank, most people I know who are successful have never even gone to college.
See, this is where my viewpoints conflict. Nobody in my family has gone to college - immediate or extended. They've all done really well for themselves financially considering the lack of degree. It's almost inspirational, really. Unfortunately, it's come with so many sacrifices. One of my uncles is a trucker, while the other works in a food distribution center. The hours are awful, the work is hard and dangerous, and the pay is "meh" considering how they're never around. (Also, my family has a shitton of medical expenses that we really can't afford, but that's another story.)
At the same time, in the town I live in now (affluent white upper-middle/upper-class suburb), everyone is expected to go to college. And not just the local Joe Schmo college, I'm talking Ivies, Top 25, prestigious in/out-of-state flagships, well-regarded private colleges. Grad school is the norm. Some of these people have terrifyingly awesome connections to MIT, Harvard, etc. The college matriculation rate for our high school class is >90% for a 4-year, like 4% for a two-year (not trade school; local CC), and 5% enlisting in the military. That's 99%-100%, folks.
But I know that if I had never moved here, I'd be singing a different tune. I probably wouldn't be going to college where I am, at a respectable college in the city with a shitton of financial aid, or really any college at all. College is literally my ticket out of my family's shitty finances and into the city, where I can actually have a career and a life.
Quote from Ashikoki;1086043:
The way I see it, it isn't that people go to college for a ticket to success, and those who don't go must be motivated to keep up... but rather there is more so a higher correlation of motivated people going to college to begin with.
That said, those who don't go but try hard shouldn't have too much difficulty. It is a bit of an inconvenience, and not having a degree closes some doors, but you don't always need to take the "short-cut". Not everyone has the resources to do it.
During my time in college, I used to vehemently think college is the most important part of a person's life. I can't believe how silly that was now. Such a huge waste of time and money.
I agree (although I cannot speak to your personal experience), but student loans are available. It's not ideal, and there are plenty of horror stories of people who are crushed by their debt even though they majored in a "marketable" field, but I see them as a worthwhile investment. The average person will make $1 million more than someone who doesn't have a degree. If you go to a 4-year in-state college, even in a state like CA or MA where it's expensive as holy hell, that's about $80k in debt (and let's say +$15k for interest, but still, less than $100k). That's a pretty decent return compared to playing the stock market.
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Just want to point out that federal loans are pretty cheap, and banks like to brag about variable interests starting as low as 3%, but most will almost always set you off at around 7% or higher, even with good credit. It took me a very long time of searching before I could find a loan service willing to not go over 8% for me. Private student loans are a scam. Edit: I'm the sucker who fell for that scam.
Pretty much this. I'm sticking to my federal loans, but some private ones if I have to.
So basically, I'm heavily opinionated on this and possibly wear a pair of rose-colored glasses. College, like anything, is what you make of it and how you look at it. I know that I'm more optimistic than most people here but I sometimes forget that.