More like, demonizing someone as "low-life trash" and throwing them away for coming onto you sexually 1 time while they were drunk, in the grand scheme of things, seems a bit silly IMO. I feel more bad for the guy to be treated like such a scum bag for making such a tiny mistake.
Well, you're right, I kinda left out some details to the bigger picture, so to be fair.
That last time wasn't the first time he tried something like that. But it was the last time he was going to try. I had told him three times before "NO," all in the same year. By the second time, I could've sworn he got it, since we actually had a real conversation about it, but he kept getting drunk and coming onto me.
So yeah, I held a grudge against him.