Quote from SlurpTASTY;1233453:
Without serious fights no problems in a relationship will ever get fixed and the couple will break up, fighting is still communication. Every time I've had a fight with my current gf it's always worth it because coming out of it we both understand each other more and come to some sort of agreement that we're both cool with instead of just letting it be water under the bridge (which never works because the same problem will arise again unless the couple does something about it).
I think that is another problem "nice guys" have when they actually do get in a relationship, they think they should let their gf get away with everything even if they're doing something wrong. It shows when you're being a pussy, don't be a pussy. DON'T DO THAT!!!! ALWAYS SOULJA BOY TELLEM!!!!!!!!!!!!
Your definition of serious and mine are vastly different. I have plenty of "those" fights, but are resolved relatively swiftly and thusly, sometimes certain ones take months to be resolved, but they get resolved. I call them... Differences, or debates.
My definition of serious is when it gets heated to the point of fighting and yelling and anger.
Fuck. We bicker and get all grumpy and 10 seconds later we are fine trying to kick each other's asses in video games.
SOMETIMES one of us goes a little overboard in the ass kicking.
My best relationships are always the one built on the strangest dynamics. And also the ones i feel the most comfortable being open and myself.