A 3.5? year followup to this thread.
http://mabination.com/threads/46580-My-sister-is-having-some-sort-of-emotional-breakdown.
I moved out to go to college, now that college is almost over for me I moved back in with my mother to save back money after living on a grand income of less than minimum wage for 3 years. Sister has become worse, much worse.
On Saturday she let herself into my mom's house where I now live with her now-husband and his brother, raiding the kitchen and taking the phone to constantly call my mother. That in itself was annoying, but I went down to get the phone from her and things got, worse.
Halfway up the stairs the phone rang, my mom had gotten back to her car and responded. She screamed at me "GIVE ME BACK THAT PHONE" and ran at me so I ran to the room me and my girlfriend share and locked it.
She constantly screamed at me for it for about 5 minutes, I got angry and yelled at her to go away and she will get it when I'm done.
She went away, but came back to scream more, the doorknob jiggled as if she was shaking it but otherwise it was all normal for her, my mom got back then so nothing more progressed. We complained, my mom drove them away and asked them about it.
My mom came back, and talked to us about it, and my good little sister who was downstairs through the whole ordeal says "They were planning on lock-picking your room, I sent you a message on facebook because it was scary." I never check my facebook, but I did then, and sure enough it was there.
She also admitted that her husband and his brother had both went upstairs to stand outside my door as well, something I did not know because THEY WERE SILENT. This terrified me and i told my mother I never want to see them here again, because I'm afraid for my safety. My mom is in disbelief, and my brother helpfully chimed in saying that one of them practiced their lockpicking on his door before coming to mine.
My mom went balistic, my sister called me and said "I love you bro" and i told her "I hate you, don't try that crap on me" because she acts like that each time. I am not going to deal with her fake "I'm so sorry forgive me" she pulls each time she goes too far.
So my mother picked me up from a sculpture class at the college today, and sure enough my sister was in the back. I had almost walked home instead but sat in the car, turned to her, and said.
"I will not speak to you again unless you and your husband go to counseling and anger management for a year" if she wanted to repair the relationship, now's the chance, I figured years of dealing with her screaming and abuse, this wasn't asking for much.
Her response.
"Your girlfriend's brainwashing all of you to hate me! I'm so abused, and you screamed at me and called me more names!"
So to make a long story short, I am never going to speak to her again. My mother has also made it perfectly clear to them that they are no longer welcome in her house because of their violent tempers(she did this after my 14 year old younger sister threatened to call CPS on her because the verbal abuse she receives from them).
They are now stuck in a trailer without electricity(they screamed at the electric company too, and mysteriously now owe 1500$ in backed up bills). And I feel terrible because my mother is in tears.