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User495 wrote on 2010-09-25 16:15
so I just "lost" a friend cause she believed friends are expendable, and replaceable
do you think she only thought that out of anger? or that she really meant it
for me I wouldn't have thought of it that way even if I was mad, sure I would think of deleting people, but I wouldn't think they were expendable, and replaceable
so what are your opinions?
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Piko wrote on 2010-09-25 16:17
True friends are bros for life. A cunt like her who thinks that should apologize if she was angry.
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User495 wrote on 2010-09-25 16:20
she was suppose to be my friend, and apparently something got her mad
and thought that "not talking for awhile" would solve the problem of "we don't talk as much as we used to"
I tried working things out but she was still being difficult so I just kinda gave up
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abc33kr wrote on 2010-09-25 16:27
its just her special day of the month.
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EndlessDreams wrote on 2010-09-25 16:28
Quote from dictionary:
–noun
1.
a person attached to another by feelings of affection or personal regard.
2.
a person who gives assistance; patron; supporter: friends of the Boston Symphony.
3.
a person who is on good terms with another; a person who is not hostile: Who goes there? Friend or foe?
4.
a member of the same nation, party, etc.
5.
(initial capital letter) a member of the Religious Society of Friends; a Quaker.
So, it must be #5. You are so obviously talking about Quaker here.
:lol::lol::lol:
Srsly, everyone has their idea of what is a friend.
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Phunkie wrote on 2010-09-25 16:50
%$^&#*U$&^&)*&*$%%*&&*$ $#&*%#$*&$*&#*&#$*$
ONE OF MY FRIENDS STOPPED TALKING TO ME AND SAID THAT VERY SAME THING TO ME
"Oh, I can replace you. It's not a problem."
SCREW YOU, HOE. I'M DOING SO MUCH BETTER WITHOUT YOU RIGHT NOW. SO MUCH BETTER
/hurt
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starpaw7 wrote on 2010-09-25 17:02
If any of my friends said that I'd go black on their ass :awesome:
They're not you're friend if they say that, unless they're overly mad for some reason :what:
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Chockeh wrote on 2010-09-25 17:26
She just mad for no reason.
Bros before Hoes, Sen.
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Cucurbita wrote on 2010-09-25 18:49
My definitions:
Stranger: You don't know them.
Classmate/Coworker: You've memorized their face, maybe their name, and you can work together to get the job done. There are no other interests holding you together. Sometimes you'll feel awkward being near them. You don't care for these people, unless their productivity is useful to you.
Acquaintance: You've learned their name, approximate information regarding things such as nationality, age, place of origin, and you are comfortable sharing a discussion about things the two of you find interesting. When the two of you meet, you can have a good time, but you won't really take much further action to deepen the relationship. Maybe you've hung out a few times. You think they're cool, but they're not important and they feel replaceable.
Friend: You've hit them up privately to do something together. They graduate to the friend level. You can contact them at any point without feeling bothersome. You don't want to lose these people, they're awesome.
Bros: You hang out often, forgive each other for mistakes, pay for each others food/tickets, car pool, and help each other when needed. Its bomb, and they're your best pals for life.
So it sounds like this person thought of you as an acquaintance. Or, she's just a general douchebag and doesn't know the value of bros cuz she's an a-hole.
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Taycat wrote on 2010-09-25 19:02
My definition of a friend is someone that loves you no matter what happens and they know to forgive you if something happens...
It's surreal, but it's what keeps me going.
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Tatsu wrote on 2010-09-25 19:41
Quote from Cucurbita;165542:
Bros: You hang out often, forgive each other for mistakes, pay for each others food/tickets, car pool, and help each other when needed. Its bomb, and they're your best pals for life.
It's not bros for life? D:
Acquaintances are expendable. If you think a friend is expendable, then it's not a friend.
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Zid wrote on 2010-09-26 15:43
Expendable usually implies it wasn't a friendship to begin with.
You can always ask her if she's fine without "friends" anyway.
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Phunkie wrote on 2010-10-10 15:42
I was thinking about this a lot yesterday.
Good friends are never expendable.
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Kazuni wrote on 2010-10-10 16:15
Quote from Phunkie;180718:
I was thinking about this a lot yesterday.
Good friends are never expendable.
Yup.
Except one of my friends.. ex-friends? Told me that friends were expendable after we'd had a falling out.
It was sad because he was a good friend.
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Lan wrote on 2010-10-10 19:43
Someone who can put up with me and not have thoughts of killing me :D