Mabinogi Community

• Shanghai wrote on 2010-12-14 01:03
  Sometimes, I'm happy that one of my best friends still plays Mabi with me. I don't really have to put up with all this stuff. :O
• User495 wrote on 2010-12-14 01:04

  Quote from Shanghai;247057:

  Sometimes, I'm happy that one of my best friends still plays Mabi with me. I don't really have to put up with all this stuff. :O

  
  
  what stuff?
  
  I kinda lost my bestfriend is also why I've noticed how hard it is to really make friends xD (external reasons)
• Chockeh wrote on 2010-12-14 01:09
  Before, everytime I logged into mabi, I kinda felt a bit ignored. Maybe because I didn't really do anything in mabi that much (Still in G2 Human, G9 Elf). People just stopped talking and some people quit (Damn you Zoid D<!), so I kind of faded away as well. I do however plan on going back to mabi this winter.
• User495 wrote on 2010-12-14 01:10

  Quote from Chockeh;247069:

  Before, everytime I logged into mabi, I kinda felt a bit ignored. Maybe because I didn't really do anything in mabi that much (Still in G2 Human, G9 Elf). People just stopped talking and some people quit (Damn you Zoid D<!), so I kind of faded away as well. I do however plan on going back to mabi this winter.

  
  
  it's pretty much Winter considering the temperatures D<
• Shanghai wrote on 2010-12-14 01:11

  Quote from Sevian;247061:

  what stuff?
  
  I kinda lost my bestfriend is also why I've noticed how hard it is to really make friends xD (external reasons)

  
  
  Guilds, random buddies, etc. etc. etc. I just stay with my guild and my friend. I may seem like an anti-soicalite right now but I do communicate with others or talk to them, I just never friend them because you-know-what's gonna happen. ._. Exceptions are Mabination members, of course.
• Username wrote on 2010-12-14 01:21
  The Mabinogi Community, varies in what you mean. Forum wise, Mabination is a bunch of servers talking about their questions and accomplishments, aswell as talking about other stuff like Vindictus and Anime and manga for example.
  The Offials, are a bunch of trolls, who don't give a crap about your questions, and many think it should be shut down or better managed. Unfortunatly, this is a most likley no to happen.
  
  Server wise, i hear Alexenia is the greatest by what i hear.
  Tarlach is popular here, same with Alexenia.
  Ruairi is well... Drama Server, dont come here.
  
  Most drama i've seen is crap about Martyr and stuff on Ruairi, and recently somthing about some girls death. Which i dont believe. :)
  Im not naming anyone, nor singling out another player or guild to bash or flame them.
• Chockeh wrote on 2010-12-14 01:27

  Quote from Sevian;247073:

  it's pretty much Winter considering the temperatures D<

  
  Winter break Sen D<.
  Though I do not make promises :D!
• User495 wrote on 2010-12-14 01:30

  Quote from Chockeh;247111:

  Winter break Sen D<.
  Though I do not make promises :D!

  
  
  you need better time management if you can't get on without a "Break" 8U
• TinyMo wrote on 2010-12-14 01:31

  Quote from Blizaga;247018:

  I have this one really good friend ingame and we ALWAYS drop whatever we are doing to help eachother out. Cept his computer is broken so I've been ALONEEE

  
  
  
  I have a really good friend in mabi like this. Well his computer's not broken. We just do dungeons or whatever, just to hang out.
  
  I think I've seen you around dunbarton Sevian:what:
  
  Anyway, you just have to find people who like to do the things you do. It was hard for me at first too. I really kept to myself. I only played with my brother really. We always did everything together. He's been gone away at school for almost 2 years now. I'd gotten so lonely that I finally started hanging with my guild and found my friend.
  
  I think a lot of people now are only concerned about being the best and showing up other people. They don't care about others. I remember in the early days, when it would rain, people would say, "put your hats on everybody!" Things have definitely changed. I'm not sure why but everyone's out for themselves. No one wants to do party dungeons. Everyone wants people to "drop" them in dungeons so they can get all the exp and rewards. They don't want to do the dungeon with a party.
  
  I think if people stopped worrying about how "awesome" they are they would find a lot truly awesome people in mabi. There's a lot of good people still out there. They're harder to find because they're not standing "afk" in dunbarton. Look around for guild that you're comfortable with. Before you join, get to know the people. Message the leader and voice your concerns. If they don't message you back, then it's not your guild.
  
  Sorry for the wall of text!
• Bankai231 wrote on 2010-12-14 01:34
  Making friends is easy to do. You just have to realize if you make a fool of yourself its online so no one is gonna know. Just go join a group of people and start talking (Reasonably of course) youll make some friends.
  
  The reason the community is so ME ME ME is because all of this dam solo stuff. The group missions dont give enough exp and items/gold to make people want to do it. Plus its hard to get a good group of people together without one person pulling all the weight imo. The levels are REALLY spread out now.
• User495 wrote on 2010-12-14 01:38

  Quote from TinyMo;247125:

  I have a really good friend in mabi like this. Well his computer's not broken. We just do dungeons or whatever, just to hang out.
  
  I think I've seen you around dunbarton Sevian:what:
  
  Anyway, you just have to find people who like to do the things you do. It was hard for me at first too. I really kept to myself. I only played with my brother really. We always did everything together. He's been gone away at school for almost 2 years now. I'd gotten so lonely that I finally started hanging with my guild and found my friend.
  
  I think a lot of people now are only concerned about being the best and showing up other people. They don't care about others. I remember in the early days, when it would rain, people would say, "put your hats on everybody!" Things have definitely changed. I'm not sure why but everyone's out for themselves. No one wants to do party dungeons. Everyone wants people to "drop" them in dungeons so they can get all the exp and rewards. They don't want to do the dungeon with a party.
  
  I think if people stopped worrying about how "awesome" they are they would find a lot truly awesome people in mabi. There's a lot of good people still out there. They're harder to find because they're not standing "afk" in dunbarton. Look around for guild that you're comfortable with. Before you join, get to know the people. Message the leader and voice your concerns. If they don't message you back, then it's not your guild.
  
  Sorry for the wall of text!

  
  
  that's fine, the post was somewhat comforting, you pointed something out that I didn't necessarily mention before that ever since I lost my best friend, that is the person that I always hang out with/do things with on mabi whenever we can, things started getting kinda lonely? iunno if that's the word for it. and because of that I started to "look" for friends, and that's how I started to notice that it's hard to find friends on mabi
• Chockeh wrote on 2010-12-14 01:40

  Quote from Sevian;247123:

  you need better time management if you can't get on without a "Break" 8U

  
  I'm in last year highschool D:!
  So much things to do~!
• User495 wrote on 2010-12-14 01:47

  Quote from Chockeh;247144:

  I'm in last year highschool D:!
  So much things to do~!

  
  
  I am too 8U
• Chockeh wrote on 2010-12-14 01:56

  Quote from Sevian;247153:

  I am too 8U

  
  Well, my time management is horrible D<. Though, I'll probably have no one to talk to when I get back in mabi.
• Kaeporo wrote on 2010-12-14 01:58
  Two months into Mabinogi I created a guild.
  
  It soared to over 50 members and dropped half just as quickly. "Redivider" (We shall divide her, also: Palindrome) slowly died despite any attempts to save it. I lost just as many friends as I did guild mates.
  
  I spent the next 11 months alone. No friends. No guild.
  
  I've only recently begun to selectively choose new friends to play with.