Quote from Episkey;1086079:
There were no public complaints or objections to this system and it worked perfectly.
No public complaints, but some private ones. Most appeals are done privately. We almost always grant them too, unless they're consistently on bad behavior. Also, the system actually failed really hard in my point of view, as a lot of members just jumped their perma-infracted accounts for fresh starts. This really isn't ban dodging, and we don't really care when people make alt accounts, so its hard to tell if you're just infraction dodging. It also makes a lot of extra work for us mods too, since sometimes we're completely unaware.
I'm hoping this gives a little more incentives for members to stick to their main accounts.
But now, after some private discussion between the Moderation Staff, this major concept has now been changed. Considering every other change in the rules has had some public discussion, I find it alarming that something as important as this was just decided behind closed doors.
I guess so, but I didn't feel such a change needed community discussion. These changes aren't really anything the users themselves have to worry about, as it doesn't mean they have to behave any differently. It was mostly a more organized guide for how moderators should deal with infractions. The information is shown publicly like this since you all have the right to know.
Things like word-filters, rules, spam policies, they're something that impacts how members are supposed to act, so we discussed it in public.
And now there is a superficial support for this new change, only due to the "positive" benefits given to those who have had severe infractions in the past.
Its what-ifs and theorycrafting simply because it hasn't happened yet. Never in the history of nation have we had someone even given 2+ month bans (well, there have been, but they got permabanned afterwards).
Even if you are joking, that isn't a serious excuse for severely breaking the rules.
That line of thinking doesn't work in real daily life, do you give murderers and thieves "breaks"?
Why does everyone suddenly view this differently? Because the medium is just a forum?
These are still human interactions that have consequences associated with them.
I would say the short answer is "yes". Being rude on a forum is not the same as murdering or thieving. I know that there is the matter of "severely breaking the rules", but just because it is the worst thing you could do in a smaller system doesn't mean it should be comparable to the worst thing you could do in a much larger system.
If I say hurtful things to a friend, and we get in to a really heated fight, it is kinda like a temporary ban when they dont want to see or talk to me for a while. Afterwards, if we get along for a long while again, and then we have a bad day and get back into a new fight, I believe the previous fight won't have an impact on it. Maybe its a poor analogy?
Dota 2 uses a very similar "warning" system. If someone is toxic, and they are reported, they are given a warning before they are punished. If they repeat the behavior, the system bans them. If they stay clean for a while, then even if they are really rude again some day, they'll be given a reminder warning. I really like this system.
I wish we could all be mature and everyone is nice to each other all the time, but some people have difficulty with anger. Its no excuse I know, but it really does happen to the best of us. Am I being too nice? If someone is going to be a problem, they probably will repeatedly act out, and get themselves banned anyways.