Honestly.. I find it wrong in a way.
Do we really have to take into consideration when we dress up that Males are unstable beings that will jump on us the moment there is an opening?
Can't we have atleast some degree of trust in people to have enough moral to reduce their earthly desire to simply looking?
Honestly.. I find it wrong in a way.
Do we really have to take into consideration when we dress up that Males are unstable beings that will jump on us the moment there is an opening?
Can't we have atleast some degree of trust in people to have enough moral to reduce their earthly desire to simply looking?
Personally, I find it really silly that people freak out whenever someone says something that sounds like "victim blaming." Most people don't actually imply that the victim is at fault for the crime, nor do they imply that the aggressor is not at fault. People, however, may think that the victim was [S]stupid[/S] irresponsible in that they haven't done their part in reducing their exposure to risk. Even RAINN, an authoritative charity on matters relating to sexual violence, states this:
Notice how careful they have to be with their wording, despite the fact that what they are saying is common sense. Or at least, it should be. The bullshit surrounding this issue is just making it more difficult to create a safer environment, and this is truly unfortunate.
If I was the girl's parent, I would feel guilty for letting her walk around by herself dressed like that. I just hope she recovers quickly.
Personally, I find it really silly that people freak out whenever someone says something that sounds like "victim blaming." Most people don't actually imply that the victim is at fault for the crime, nor do they imply that the aggressor is not at fault. People, however, may think that the victim was [S]stupid[/S] irresponsible in that they haven't done their part in reducing their exposure to risk. Even RAINN, an authoritative charity on matters relating to sexual violence, states this:
Notice how careful they have to be with their wording, despite the fact that what they are saying is common sense. Or at least, it should be. The bullshit surrounding this issue is just making it more difficult to create a safer environment, and this is truly unfortunate.
If I was the girl's parent, I would feel guilty for letting her walk around by herself dressed like that. I just hope she recovers quickly.
Personally, I find it really silly that people freak out whenever someone says something that sounds like "victim blaming." Most people don't actually imply that the victim is at fault for the crime, nor do they imply that the aggressor is not at fault. People, however, may think that the victim was [S]stupid[/S] irresponsible in that they haven't done their part in reducing their exposure to risk. Even RAINN, an authoritative charity on matters relating to sexual violence, states this:
Notice how careful they have to be with their wording, despite the fact that what they are saying is common sense. Or at least, it should be. The bullshit surrounding this issue is just making it more difficult to create a safer environment, and this is truly unfortunate.
If I was the girl's parent, I would feel guilty for letting her walk around by herself dressed like that. I just hope she recovers quickly.
UPDATE (8/1/2014): Police now say the teenager found unconscious and bloody near Comic-Con early Sunday may not have been assaulted, as previously reported, but was likely the victim of a fall. However, ABC San Diego says charges against a 29-year-old man, described below, are still being referred to the district attorney's office for consideration.
UPDATE (8/1/2014): Police now say the teenager found unconscious and bloody near Comic-Con early Sunday may not have been assaulted, as previously reported, but was likely the victim of a fall. However, ABC San Diego says charges against a 29-year-old man, described below, are still being referred to the district attorney's office for consideration.
UPDATE (8/1/2014): Police now say the teenager found unconscious and bloody near Comic-Con early Sunday may not have been assaulted, as previously reported, but was likely the victim of a fall. However, ABC San Diego says charges against a 29-year-old man, described below, are still being referred to the district attorney's office for consideration.
What, how?
What are those people's problem. She's fine, nobody's raped. These people need to get a life.
Also, apparently now everyone is turning against her. Her Tumblr was leaked and once everyone saw that it was full of pictures of her in her underwear, sex/nude pictures, and comments about how she would like to try being raped. Add that together with how the guy is getting his life ruined because she lied about her age to get sex and alcohol from him. This shit is going to get ugly.
A way a girl dresses shouldn't be anybody's concern so don't blame it on her costume jfc, if that's what it takes to assault or even rape someone (I know she didn't but the way half of you make to sound) then you really need to get some help.