And this question is toward phunkie.
A woman raised in a woman only community, such as all-girl school+strict parents that don't let her go outside to meet other guys, would be very scared of men (this is excluding hormones to simulate the situation between straight guy and gay guy). So would it be fair for her to be uncomfortable around them?
She has reason to feel shy, to feel weird around guys and possibly even have trouble pursuing future relationships with men.
It is not right to hate men, however. Why? Because she would be doing so simply out of misunderstanding about who men really are and how they act. But sure, I guess you have a point; she may avoid them at first. Though this shouldn't be permanent.
She should seek out to understand men. Slowly, perhaps. Make a male friend, explore what it is to have a friend of the opposite sex. Closing herself in from society and from other males will just hinder her. She will grow closed-minded, she will start disliking all men. She'll even start coming up stereotypes for them, rude judgments as well.
It doesn't take much to say, "Hey. I've never been friends with a guy before. Can you help me understand you?" May seem weird, but communication goes a long way. It would help her clear her weird thoughts and ideas about what men really represent and she would learn to appreciate them as people. Because we are all people first. Gay, straight, female, male, adult, child, black, white, American, Chinese, all those come second.