Rape fantasies

• Spike wrote on 2011-08-02 13:26
  Why do so many women have them?
  
  

  From 1973 through 2008, nine surveys of women's rape fantasies have been published. They show that about four in 10 women admit having them (31 to 57 percent) with a median frequency of about once a month. Actual prevalence of rape fantasies is probably higher because women may not feel comfortable admitting them.

• Kingofrunes wrote on 2011-08-02 14:00
  It all depends on what these rape fantasies are.
  
  Are they fantasizing Raping Men or Men Raping them?
• Spike wrote on 2011-08-02 14:10

  Quote from Kingofrunes;534964:

  It all depends on what these rape fantasies are.
  
  Are they fantasizing Raping Men or Men Raping them?

  Men raping them
• Sleeperdial wrote on 2011-08-02 14:36
  Because deep down women want sex more than men do. They just don't show it.
  This is why lesbians screw anything, ANYTHING, that isn't a man.
• Phunkie wrote on 2011-08-02 15:06
  Deep down, they may be so turned on by the idea of a man taking absolute control of her.
  
  That's what I'd assume.
• Kenny? wrote on 2011-08-02 15:25

  Quote from Phigga;534997:

  Deep down, they may be so turned on by the idea of a man taking absolute control of her.
  
  That's what I'd assume.

  
  
  This makes sense. It's shown that certain women feel more important when a man is in control of her, or is authoritative.
  
  "But in order to be seduced, a woman must lower her defenses and allow the man to work his magic on her. Thus, seduction itself is a form of psychological domination in which the woman gives up control of the situation to the man (Power Struggle 1)."
• System wrote on 2011-08-02 15:28
  I actually have rape fantasies (As a male)
  
  But it requires a lot of blood, some tight leather and her to be incredibly dominant.
• Chiyuri wrote on 2011-08-02 16:24
  Well.. that's just my personnal opinion about it, not sure if others feel it the same way I do.
  
  But the feeling of losing control over yourself, of being objectified for a short amount of time, mixing in a deep feeling of humiliation.. the slowly creeping feeling that you are losing your mind into it and that you might start to enjoy it on a physical level.. When your will is being forced into a corner of your mind as sexual pleasure is taking more space.. and finaly.. when your last wall of resistance crumble down and for a very breif moment, you are in a "nirvana" of high emotions where you can't tell if "you" exist or not anymore.. *start drooling*
  Anyway.. High emotions are like a drug.. it's quite addictive.. Sadly the highest point of it is very breif.
  
  
  Of course, that's only for fantasy rape.. real rape is quite different on the emotionnal and physical level..
• Zid wrote on 2011-08-02 17:10
  I really do hope those women know the difference between lowering inhibitions of saying sweet "no"s to Leonardo diCapiro (imaginary) as he's fondling them, and actual rape as in, horrified "no"s.
• Syriah wrote on 2011-08-02 17:17

  Quote from Chiyuri;535036:

  Well.. that's just my personnal opinion about it, not sure if others feel it the same way I do.
  
  But the feeling of losing control over yourself, of being objectified for a short amount of time, mixing in a deep feeling of humiliation.. the slowly creeping feeling that you are losing your mind into it and that you might start to enjoy it on a physical level.. When your will is being forced into a corner of your mind as sexual pleasure is taking more space.. and finaly.. when your last wall of resistance crumble down and for a very breif moment, you are in a "nirvana" of high emotions where you can't tell if "you" exist or not anymore.. *start drooling*
  Anyway.. High emotions are like a drug.. it's quite addictive.. Sadly the highest point of it is very breif.
  
  
  Of course, that's only for fantasy rape.. real rape is quite different on the emotionnal and physical level..

  
  
  Very true and well said.
• Cynic wrote on 2011-08-02 17:26

  Quote from Sleeperdial;534978:

  Because deep down women want sex more than men do. They just don't show it.
  This is why lesbians screw anything, ANYTHING, that isn't a man.

  
  
  Uh, no. Get your facts straight.
  
  And basically what Chiyuri said. I don't like calling them rape fantasies because really, they aren't; they just seem like it because the woman appears to object to when, when in reality (and fantasy), they don't.
• Xentaros wrote on 2011-08-02 17:27

  Quote from Cynic;535077:

  Uh, no. Get your facts straight.
  
  And basically what Chiyuri said. I don't like calling them rape fantasies because really, they aren't; they just seem like it because the woman appears to object to when, when in reality (and fantasy), they don't.

  
  
  You like yaoi more
• Sleeperdial wrote on 2011-08-02 17:32

  Quote from Cynic;535077:

  Uh, no. Get your facts straight.
  
  And basically what Chiyuri said. I don't like calling them rape fantasies because really, they aren't; they just seem like it because the woman appears to object to when, when in reality (and fantasy), they don't.

  
  
  The ones that I know do.
• RebeccaBlack wrote on 2011-08-02 17:34

  Quote from Spike;534949:

  Why do so many women have them?

  
  Four in ten? Really? I'm surprised it's not nine in ten or perhaps even more than that. But I guess only four in ten admitted it in this case.
  

  Quote from System;535007:

  I actually have rape fantasies (As a male)
  
  But it requires a lot of blood, some tight leather and her to be incredibly dominant.

  
  I'm also surprised more men don't have these fantasies, but it kind of makes sense because men somehow got themselves into some weird social conditioning crap so any sign of weakness is kind of a huge deal to other men.
  
  And yeah, I wouldn't call them rape fantasies. Just rough sex fantasies. If someone asks me to "act out a rape fantasy", it usually turns into a rough sex fantasy as people don't realize just how brutal, especially emotionally, it is to actually be forced into sex. The person on the "giving" end really has to be acting, and they have to do a pretty bad job of it too.
  
  Blah, I don't prefer submissive women, if this post hasn't made that obvious <__<
• Cynic wrote on 2011-08-02 17:36

  Quote from Xentaros;535078:

  You like yaoi more

  
  
  Not really. I like Yaoi because watching girls in Yuri do the things I enjoy in sex is just painful; women are more delicate than men.
  In real life I tend to hate being around any masculine men, it irritates me. Irritation =/= sexual attraction.