I meant more for a specific article - it is hard enough to find with the garbage that clogs up most searches :gloom3:
Just my own personal belief. There's some motivational speaker that talked about this stuff though, how our minds work and stuff... it was, uhh... David DeAngelo. Interesting theories he has.
Basically saying even though or logical minds don't like certain things and we try to rationalize it away, but we still like them due to instincts and whatnot.
still, if you find it enjoyable, its not rape. its just forceful pleasure. i have forceful pleasure fantasies all the time, being completely and totally dominated by a man, but only in bed, im in charge anywhere else.
Well, no. Whether you find it enjoyable or not is irrelevant. Of course it's going to feel good, that's just how we're wired. Even if it was Rosie O'Donnell with a strap-on, it'd feel good. That doesn't mean you wouldn't be repulsed and horrified.
If you consent, it is not rape. Otherwise, it is.
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Amongst other things, I guess...